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What would you do if you wanted a baby?

Anonymous
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I have 2 kids, 13 & 14. DH has 2 kids, 12 & 14. We have all the kids pretty much all the time. I am 35, DH is 47. I thought I was done having kids, DH is fixed. Since we started dating, 3.5 years ago, my desire to have a baby seems to double every year. We have been married a year. DH says he is way too old and wants time for just us in the relatively near future. I cry all the time because I'm longing for a baby. What would you do?
Posted by Anonymous on May. 30, 2016 at 1:34 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 30, 2016 at 1:35 PM
Get over it like I did.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 30, 2016 at 1:36 PM
Get over it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 30, 2016 at 1:36 PM
Did you cry all the time? Constantly dream about babies?

Quoting Anonymous 2: Get over it like I did.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on May. 30, 2016 at 1:36 PM
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I would go to counseling.

Your DH doesn't want kids, you either move past it or divorce him. If he is a good husband and father I would highly recommend the former as opposed to the latter.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on May. 30, 2016 at 1:36 PM
Get over it. I had my last baby(Surprise!!) At 27 and it's exhausting. I'd never do this again. No matter how much I love the cuddles and breastfeeding and teeny clothes
brimar
by Silver Member on May. 30, 2016 at 1:37 PM
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Remember he would be close to 70 by the time the kid would be out of college and give him a break.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on May. 30, 2016 at 1:38 PM

wait a few years, you'll have grandkids and those are better

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 30, 2016 at 1:38 PM
No. So I'm sorry I didn't mean to sound like a bitch. Maybe talk to someone?

Quoting Anonymous 1: Did you cry all the time? Constantly dream about babies?

Quoting Anonymous 2: Get over it like I did.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on May. 30, 2016 at 1:39 PM
Get a good therapist.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on May. 30, 2016 at 1:39 PM

What would I do if I were you? Have my head examined. 

You can see the light at the end of the tunnel. All 4 kids will be grown soon. Don't be stupid. Don't make the light at the end of the tunnel a baby train that will run you over. 

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