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S/O. Would you go?

Anonymous
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SDD is testing for her black belt next weekend. She has asked dh and I to go.  Her mom sent dh an email telling him that I was not invited. SDD specifically told me she wants me there.  She is 12. She also told me and dh that she wants all of her parents in a picture...to include me and her step dad.


BM told dh that stepdad will be there but I am not welcome as I would make HER uncomfortable. 

DH told her it isn't about her being comfortable but about what SDD wants.  If she tells us she doesn't want me there then fine. 

SDD called this morning to confirm that I am going. 

Posted by Anonymous on May. 30, 2016 at 5:50 PM
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Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on May. 30, 2016 at 5:51 PM
I'd go. Black belt testing is a big deal and she wants you there, so go.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 30, 2016 at 5:52 PM
Of course is go
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 30, 2016 at 5:52 PM
This

Quoting Danesmommy1: I'd go. Black belt testing is a big deal and she wants you there, so go.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on May. 30, 2016 at 5:53 PM
Why doesn't dad tell her the stepdad makes him uncomfortable and see how she like it but anyways you should go if sdd asked you
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on May. 30, 2016 at 5:53 PM
I'd absolutely go. It's the child's special day and she wants you there. Mom and her bullshit can suck it.

Add: I'd have your husband give mom a heads up though so she doesn't make a scene and ruin the day for your SD.
Ted1242
by I'm listening. on May. 30, 2016 at 5:54 PM
Absolutely. I'd be out the first sign of trouble though. If her mother wants to act a fool, I wouldn't want the daughter to be embarrassed.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on May. 30, 2016 at 5:55 PM
Go. Have dad tell mom the it makes HIM uncomfortable with stepdad there. See what she says.
lalalamama
by on May. 30, 2016 at 5:57 PM
I would go. This is about sd, not her mom.
left.drowning
by Fix Me on May. 30, 2016 at 5:58 PM
If she wants you there then go. Its about the child not about the parents
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Ashgambit
by Boomstick on May. 30, 2016 at 5:59 PM
I would go. It's about SD, nobody else. Black belt testing a huge deal.
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