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He got mad over sex...

Posted by on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:42 PM
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A little back info..
My husband is a recovering alcoholic and porn addict. We have a 14 month old son and I found out at 5 months pregnant that he had cheated.

Fast forward to today.
Got up with the baby this morning we went grocery shopping. Came home he asked if there was anything he could do for me today. I said "well there is one thing, I've been asking for for two weeks now". I was teasing when I said it. He got pissed and said "Jesus Christ just come right out and say it in front of the kids!" (Our other kids are 9 & 10, both girls)

Who does that? Seriously!

I told him I was done asking. It's been 4 weeks and he's pretty much responded this way each time I've mentioned it over the last two weeks :(
I've accepted I'm in a sexless marriage. It just sucks and I needed to vent.
by on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:42 PM
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Manic_Sinner
by 5/27/2018🤰🏽 on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:43 PM
I'm sorry. Hope things get better.
corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:43 PM

You do realize that you made a gigantic mistake there, right?

SueWanda
by Platinum Member on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:44 PM
How heavily did he drink. He might have a VERY low libido right now & be sensitive about it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:44 PM
Leave him.
Inana
by Controversial on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:44 PM
Wait, he's a porn addict but doesn't have sex??? Is that a thing?
corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:45 PM

Oh absolutely.  

Quoting Inana: Wait, he's a porn addict but doesn't have sex??? Is that a thing?


bluedolly01
by Silver Member on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:45 PM
I hear you. Damn.... every time I try to initiate sex I get turned down (this is recent - last 12 month - 2 years or so), but when he wants sex he gets it (I don't mind I enjoy sex with my DH).

I have been turned down no less than 14 times. It's gotten to the stage where I no longer even attempt to initiate.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:46 PM

Since hes not having sex with you, is he watching porn?

snowboarder2007
by Bronze Member on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:47 PM
Unfortunately yes.

Quoting Inana: Wait, he's a porn addict but doesn't have sex??? Is that a thing?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 11, 2016 at 5:48 PM
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Yes. Guys can get themselves off so easily they get stuck in a pattern of only doing themselves so to speak. Happens to women too. It's one of the reasons I'm 100% against porn.

Quoting Inana: Wait, he's a porn addict but doesn't have sex??? Is that a thing?
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