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UGH, UGH, UGH

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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i am so mad right now. it might sound insane to some, but i get 50/50 custody so my time with my son is precious. i work full time so my nights are our time together and its very little. 

today my ex-mil asked to take my son to the zoo bc my ex-sil is in town. i said "sure fine, i work 8:30-5:30. i will pick him up when i get off work" (i dropped him off to her). she told me that she would probably bring him to me at my work bc she has to come into town to get groceries. she would text me when she got home, which she thought would be by 4 bc they are calling for rain.

i just got a text saying they are still at the zoo (5:00pm) and were going to ride some rides then be leaving. i am fuming. its over an hour and a half from the zoo home. so i am guessing no earlier then 7:00pm. 

this is the 2nd time she has done this to me, complete disregard for me and my time. i am sure he is having fun and that matters, but she is using my time and being disrespectful. last time she said she would be back by 2pm, showed up bout 9pm.

i am so telling his dad this will not happen again. if she wants him thats fine, but only on my work time. i barely see him as it is. 

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 4, 2016 at 5:09 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 4, 2016 at 5:12 PM

tell her to get him during your ex's time

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 4, 2016 at 5:13 PM

thats the normal protocol. but his aunt is only in town right now during my days with him. i was trying to be nice, bc i know that he would want to see his cousins. 

Quoting Anonymous 2:

tell her to get him during your ex's time


nmkj
by on Aug. 4, 2016 at 5:14 PM
She can see him on dad's time.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 4, 2016 at 5:16 PM

sip some wine and take a relaxing bath

Quoting Anonymous 1:

thats the normal protocol. but his aunt is only in town right now during my days with him. i was trying to be nice, bc i know that he would want to see his cousins. 

Quoting Anonymous 2:

tell her to get him during your ex's time



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 4, 2016 at 5:17 PM

i guess this is what i get for being nice, walked all over. 

Quoting nmkj: She can see him on dad's time.


SaraMadrid
by Bronze Member on Aug. 4, 2016 at 5:17 PM
This is what I would do too

Quoting Anonymous 2:

tell her to get him during your ex's time

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 4, 2016 at 5:18 PM

its a little late for that now. but i will be putting my foot down from now on. 

Quoting SaraMadrid: This is what I would do too
Quoting Anonymous 2:

tell her to get him during your ex's time


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 4, 2016 at 5:20 PM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 4, 2016 at 5:21 PM

i am sure they would show up right in the middle and ruin that too!!! :( 

Quoting Anonymous 2:

sip some wine and take a relaxing bath

Quoting Anonymous 1:

thats the normal protocol. but his aunt is only in town right now during my days with him. i was trying to be nice, bc i know that he would want to see his cousins. 

Quoting Anonymous 2:

tell her to get him during your ex's time




SaraMadrid
by Bronze Member on Aug. 4, 2016 at 5:22 PM
Yea I get that I'm talking about in the future.. my ex inlaws try to pull this on my and I tell them no they get mad but I don't care lol

Quoting Anonymous 1:

its a little late for that now. but i will be putting my foot down from now on. 

Quoting SaraMadrid: This is what I would do too

Quoting Anonymous 2:

tell her to get him during your ex's time

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