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Im in a sexless marriage

Anonymous
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Dh is very nice, likes to cuddle and tells me he loves me all the time. But he never wants sex. He knows he has low t but doesn't go to the Dr for help. Its been years like this. He does however have enough interest to sneakily look at porn. I now feel like the most unattractive person in the world. The man I love isn't interested in me. Never tells me I'm beautiful. He uses me for cuddles, that's not my thing, it's his. I feel trapped and it's depressing to the point of scary. Just venting.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 6, 2016 at 1:10 PM
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stormie1985
by Member on Aug. 6, 2016 at 1:11 PM
Yeah that sucks. I'm in a similar situation
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 6, 2016 at 1:14 PM
I wish I just didn't care.

Quoting stormie1985: Yeah that sucks. I'm in a similar situation
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 6, 2016 at 1:15 PM
I'm sorry. I can totally relate. My husband is same exact way. He loves to cuddle and hold hands. He is very loving and affectionate. But when it comes to sex, it's just not happening. It is very frustrating and depressing. Makes me feel like shit.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 6, 2016 at 1:17 PM
It's been almost five years since we've had sex. I totally understand. Some days I feel like I can't put up with it and I'm super angry and other times, I don't think much about it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 6, 2016 at 1:18 PM
Same thing for me. I've now become used to it but for years it was a sore point. We haven't had sex in 3 years.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Aug. 6, 2016 at 1:19 PM
I am too. I love DH and we have a happy marriage..just no sex.
Ted1242
by I'm listening. on Aug. 6, 2016 at 1:19 PM
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Oh. My. I'm totally sad for everyone that's already replied to this post.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Aug. 6, 2016 at 1:23 PM
That sucks. I'm sorry. I don't understand why so many men won't see a doctor. Sometimes it's an easy fix. DH had ED problems and saw his doctor. They prescribed Cialis. Our sex life went from barely anything to out of this world.

I suppose a lot of men are embarrassed, but they don't need to be. Doctors have seen it all.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 6, 2016 at 1:40 PM
Yeah. It makes me angry sometimes. Why should I let him cuddle and get his needs met when mine never are?

Quoting Anonymous 2: I'm sorry. I can totally relate. My husband is same exact way. He loves to cuddle and hold hands. He is very loving and affectionate. But when it comes to sex, it's just not happening. It is very frustrating and depressing. Makes me feel like shit.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 6, 2016 at 1:42 PM
I can't believe I'm at this place in life. It's so sad.

Quoting Anonymous 3: It's been almost five years since we've had sex. I totally understand. Some days I feel like I can't put up with it and I'm super angry and other times, I don't think much about it.
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