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Dating while separated?

Anonymous
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If you and your dh were separated and he started seeing other people would you still continue to try to save your marriage or consider it over?

Just to clarify- I am still absolutely 100% in love with my husband and I want nothing more than to stay married. This separation was his decision, not mine. I can't see myself ever wanting to be with anyone else.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 6, 2016 at 7:54 PM
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Aug. 6, 2016 at 7:55 PM
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Nope .........its over. 

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by Petty Princess on Aug. 6, 2016 at 7:56 PM

I'd never do that and I wouldn't save a thing once it got far enough to separate.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 6, 2016 at 7:58 PM
Can't say "I'm done" more clearly than banging someone else. The marriage is over.
flaquitabss
by Gold Member on Aug. 6, 2016 at 7:59 PM
No. What if he is going to do? Work in two relationships at a time? Then pick his best choice? No way in hell! He is out!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 6, 2016 at 8:00 PM
I would be done. There is no turning back from that for me. :( I'm sorry you have to go through this.
GingerZombie
by Silver Member on Aug. 6, 2016 at 8:00 PM
Depends, was that part of the terms of your separation? I think y'all are done tho....
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 6, 2016 at 8:01 PM
I'd consider it over. I'm all for people separating and date while they figure out what they want, but you can't actively work on your marriage while seeing other people. I know for me that initiating a separation would mean that I was done and not interested in working anything out. DH is of the same philosophy.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 6, 2016 at 8:02 PM
Hell no. The thought of my man with someone else makes me feel physically sick.

Quoting GingerZombie: Depends, was that part of the terms of your separation? I think y'all are done tho....
jamamama00
by on Aug. 6, 2016 at 8:02 PM
There is no way I would work on reconciliation while my husband was out banging some other bitch.
PurpleUnicorn_2
by Member on Aug. 6, 2016 at 8:03 PM
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Been there. Done that. Never again. My advice, don't be a fool. You deserve better than that.
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