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Condolence gift

Anonymous
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A girl at my work fiancé has passed away from a car accident today. He use to work here before he was fired. They are taking up money to send to her rather than take up money for flowers. How much do you give?

Also not exactly relevant but this girl hated me for no reason... competition reasons always rude and had tried to get me fired. How much do you donate?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 11, 2016 at 1:08 AM
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702girly
by on Nov. 11, 2016 at 1:09 AM
I wouldn't give anything.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 11, 2016 at 1:47 AM
I wouldn't give anything, either.
September-days
by on Nov. 11, 2016 at 1:55 AM
I would give anywhere from $10-$20. It's not about the amount of $, it's just a good gesture from co workers.
DensHag
by Ruby Member on Nov. 11, 2016 at 1:57 AM
Whatever amount you are comfortable with.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 11, 2016 at 1:59 AM
I wouldn't care about personal feelings and I would throw in what I could. If I were in a similar situation as she, any form of support in my time grief would be appreciated, no matter who it came from or what form.
tsatske2
by Latricia on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:00 AM

It depends on your income level. At my income level, I'd give $20. And it would make no matter to me how she had felt about me in the past. I'd let her know I was there for her when she returned.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:03 AM
I wouldn't. Probably a card, but I'm on a very tight budget.
redheadtmk
by Ruby Member on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:06 AM
I wouldn't give any. I am very stingy with my money. I work my ass off at two jobs while dh is in grad school. I don't like to part with it unless it's for an extremely good reason.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:22 AM

Send a condolence card

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