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should i invite her?

Anonymous
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weird question but this is the first year my bf's dd will be with us for thanksgiving. she's 3, and I thought it would be nice to invite her mom but would it be weird? my bf doesn't mind if she comes but I don't want his ex to think I pity her or something outrageous like that (she's a bit dramatic, lied to bf when she cheated on him and said she has split personalities. she doesn't, she has depression and that's it)

would you invite the ex? I want to do the right thing but I don't want drama. Idk what to do.

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:43 PM
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mama_danetta
by She's so heavy on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:45 PM
I'm sure she has her own family to celebrate with.
gogohas2babies
by on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:46 PM
I think that's a really noble thing to do. Do you actually want to though?
MrsDukati
by on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:46 PM
I wouldn't. Just enjoy your time with your BF and his DD.
blessedmommie07
by Bronze Member on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:46 PM
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If you think you all will be comfortable with it why not? Kids do much better when everyone can get along and interact nicely for the child.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:46 PM

not really but i dont want to separate  them during the holidays you know?

Quoting gogohas2babies: I think that's a really noble thing to do. Do you actually want to though?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:47 PM

they dont celebrate thanksgiving.

Quoting mama_danetta: I'm sure she has her own family to celebrate with.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:47 PM

I would not. Why would your bf want someone who cheated on him around? I wouldn't. 

CorpCityGrl
by Ruby Member on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:47 PM

While what you want to do is coming from a nice place and is considerate, I would not.

702girly
by on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:48 PM

Nope. That sounds like a mess. 

TinkerToyMom
by Renee on Nov. 11, 2016 at 2:48 PM
Sure.
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