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How long???

Anonymous
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Hello ladies,

How long did you waited to have sex with your partner after giving birth? Did you waited your 40 days? I am about two weeks only and husband can't wait till I feel better and I don't want to keep him waiting that long but i am a little afraid since I had C-Section... So how long?

Dh is not pressuring me but he does says he can use the back door lol.. I know he will wait and I have giving him a BJ that has calm him so that's one good thing...
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 28, 2016 at 8:16 AM
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Not_A_Native
by Ruby Member on Nov. 28, 2016 at 9:40 AM
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I waited the full 6 weeks.  It won't kill him.

Fireball101586
by Ruby Member on Nov. 28, 2016 at 10:03 AM
We have three, the longest we waited was 5 weeks and the shortest was 3. All mine were vaginal. In our case lol I was the one that started things, not my husband. He waited until I gave the go ahead. If you aren't ready and your husband is pressuring you he is being an uncaring ASS!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 28, 2016 at 10:07 AM
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Give him some head and put him to bed.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 28, 2016 at 10:08 AM

I waited 6 weeks and it still kind of hurt. It takes awhile to get back in the swing of things. For me at least. 

ReedusStalker
by 11-15/3-27 on Nov. 28, 2016 at 10:08 AM

I waited 3 weeks but I didn't have a c-section.  Tell him to jack off, he can wait.  He needs to act like an adult and wait until his wife is completely healed. 

mama_danetta
by She's so heavy on Nov. 28, 2016 at 10:09 AM
Tell him to go jack off.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 28, 2016 at 10:10 AM
We waited between 3-5 weeks, each time.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 28, 2016 at 10:11 AM
Tell him to fuck off and let you heal. You just gave birth it won't kill him to rub one off in the shower
shell3m
by Shell on Nov. 28, 2016 at 10:11 AM
3 months after my first
Only a week after my 4th..lol!
But if you aren't ready mentally then he can keep jacking off. You grew a human and gave birth...he can chill.
kman88
by Gold Member on Nov. 28, 2016 at 10:13 AM

If your not ready give him a BJ to help the man out!!! 

I waited 3 weeks. I had a vaginal birth and stitches. 

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