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Anonymous
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I'm a bit of a mess.
I've been through to much and I'm exhausted (life and love wise). So dating is not happening. I don't want to pursue anybody. I need time for myself but how much time is enough? I feel like it'll take years for me to be in a comfortable spot. I'm young so no hurry but I do have two kids. I don't NEED a man but I'd like one. Someone to take care of me for once I suppose. I'm rambling, oops.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 11, 2016 at 7:07 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 11, 2016 at 7:09 PM
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If you're looking for someone to take care of you, you aren't ready to be dating.

When you want to ADD to your life, that's when you're ready.

At least that's how I've been going about it. In the meantime, I've been focusing on myself, finding new hobbies and interests. Things that make me, me... beyond being a mother.
mama_danetta
by She's so heavy on Dec. 11, 2016 at 7:09 PM
Work on yourself, and take care of your kids.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 11, 2016 at 7:10 PM

You take as long as you feel is necessary. When you meet the right person at the right time it'll all fall into place and you will know. No need to actively seek out someone. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 11, 2016 at 7:10 PM
You need to learn to take care of you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2016 at 7:30 PM
Um I already do

Quoting Anonymous 4: You need to learn to take care of you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2016 at 7:31 PM
When I say take care of me I mean for a change someone else cooks dinners or getting me a glass of water. The little things.

Quoting Anonymous 2: If you're looking for someone to take care of you, you aren't ready to be dating.

When you want to ADD to your life, that's when you're ready.

At least that's how I've been going about it. In the meantime, I've been focusing on myself, finding new hobbies and interests. Things that make me, me... beyond being a mother.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2016 at 7:31 PM
I already do.

Quoting mama_danetta: Work on yourself, and take care of your kids.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2016 at 7:32 PM
I don't seek out anybody. If it happens it happens.

Quoting Anonymous 3:

You take as long as you feel is necessary. When you meet the right person at the right time it'll all fall into place and you will know. No need to actively seek out someone. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Dec. 11, 2016 at 7:34 PM
Never never never never never count in a man to rake care of you.

Be with someone because you want to take care of them
andreamarie
by Platinum Member on Dec. 11, 2016 at 7:37 PM
You will know when you are ready.
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