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It's not even February and they're already arguing over Spring Break

Anonymous
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SD's school follows a year round schedule so she gets two weeks off for Spring Break. We get her one week and BM gets her one week. The CO doesn't specific which week but we always seem to take the first week. DH was talking with SD on Wednesday and she said her aunt (BM's sister) invited her to go to Florida with them but they're going the first week. BM already told her it was ok and she hoped DH would be ok with her coming the second week. DH told her that was fine and he would work out the details with BM. BM calls last night and says since we always take the first week and he said she would go with her aunt that he is forfeiting his visit. DH told BM she has said yes first and SD lives with her so SD should visit us the other week. We cut SD's trip here for Christmas short because BM wanted to SD to go to her family Christmas as Bm's mom is really sick. DH told her he would talk to her later because he was at work and BM got mad and he ended up basically hanging up on her. So who should give up their week?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 13, 2017 at 5:00 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 13, 2017 at 5:02 PM
Not cool.
fullxbusymom
by Sapphire Member on Jan. 13, 2017 at 5:02 PM

Mom

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 13, 2017 at 5:09 PM
Is there a reason why?

Quoting fullxbusymom:

Mom

fullxbusymom
by Sapphire Member on Jan. 13, 2017 at 5:11 PM

Aunt I am guessing is her side of the family she allowed her to go on her time then dad gets her the other week.  Pretty simple to me. 

Quoting Anonymous 1: Is there a reason why?
Quoting fullxbusymom:

Mom


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 13, 2017 at 5:13 PM
Nobody should give up their week.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 13, 2017 at 5:14 PM
I'm sorry I thought you meant mom should get to keep her week, leaving dad with no visit.

Quoting fullxbusymom:

Aunt I am guessing is her side of the family she allowed her to go on her time then dad gets her the other week.  Pretty simple to me. 

Quoting Anonymous 1: Is there a reason why?

Quoting fullxbusymom:

Mom

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 13, 2017 at 5:15 PM

How old is SD? 

GigglesX4
by Silver Member on Jan. 13, 2017 at 5:16 PM

The biological mom is giving up her week as she gave her daughter permission to go on vacation with her sister. I say your husband should get the second week. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 13, 2017 at 5:16 PM
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Quoting Anonymous 4:

How old is SD? 

nocalmegan
by Ruby Member on Jan. 13, 2017 at 5:36 PM
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Mom should give it up since she is the one who gave him permission to leave.
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