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I just feel so forgotten.....

Anonymous
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We have 3 sons. In the last 3 months, they have been to spend the night with family 6 times. Tonight included.

Dh comes home and sleeps on the couch. Wants sex. Goes back to sleep.

I cook dinner and clean up just like a regular night.

I am fucking over this shit.

I don't know how to say something in a way that won't cause a fight.

Dh already texted me.....hope you are making meatloaf for dinner, its my favorite. I am tired and just want to pass out.

We had a discussion about actually doing something this time.

FML
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 13, 2017 at 6:17 PM
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lucky2Beeme
by Emerald Member on Jan. 13, 2017 at 7:14 PM

Tell him you would love to go out for dinner some place he can order meatloaf.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 13, 2017 at 7:17 PM
Have you tried saying 'lets go out for dinner and drinks!'?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 13, 2017 at 7:19 PM
Yup. Or tell him you picked up your favorite to go food and he's on his own!

Quoting lucky2Beeme:

Tell him you would love to go out for dinner some place he can order meatloaf.

peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Jan. 13, 2017 at 7:21 PM
Take yourself shopping and the movies
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 13, 2017 at 7:24 PM
What you've described was my night last night. Most nights actually, except my SO usually doesn't even sit down and eat dinner with me until I'm halfway finished with my dinner, if at all.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 13, 2017 at 7:27 PM

Text him back "I hope you are taking me out for a nice dinner tonight b/c I fucking deserve it!". 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 13, 2017 at 7:29 PM
NO SEX...PAY UP
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Jan. 13, 2017 at 7:30 PM
I never cook when mil watches dd. It's takeout/fend for yourself weekend.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Jan. 13, 2017 at 7:30 PM
Text him back saying "Hey Numbnuts, we are going out for dinner tonight then a movie afterwards, got it??? Good!!!!!"
redheadtmk
by Ruby Member on Jan. 13, 2017 at 7:42 PM

So stop cooking and cleaning. When the boys are going to be gone, make plans. Tell dh he can either join you or stay home but you are going out. He can make his own meal once in awhile. I wouldnt avoid a fight. That is probably how things got to be so miserable. You just suck it up and deal to keep the peace until you are burnt out. Time to change that. Demand respect, Demand time alone if he wont go with you, demand that he start making some changes.

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