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Child support

Anonymous
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I spend what I get on me not ds usually.
Mind you he owes pretty much 3 yrs and ds is 4.5 so.

What about you mommas? What do you spend it on? Kids,household bills,save?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 18, 2017 at 2:48 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 18, 2017 at 2:58 PM
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1Dexx3
by Silver Member on Jan. 18, 2017 at 3:10 PM
I don't get CS. We have 60/40ish and he takes care of the kids when the kids are with him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 18, 2017 at 3:20 PM
Yeah my ex would be lost if he had to care for ds. I've always had the 100 custody.

Quoting 1Dexx3: I don't get CS. We have 60/40ish and he takes care of the kids when the kids are with him.
bubbs0809
by Emerald Member on Jan. 18, 2017 at 3:22 PM
Household stuff
It just is part of the money in the account and I just get or do what's needed
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 18, 2017 at 3:23 PM

I spend it on bills and whatever my kids need. Its not for me.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 18, 2017 at 3:24 PM
Does it direct deposit or do you have a card for just support?

I have a card just for support. And I usually just use it for extras,easier.

Quoting bubbs0809: Household stuff
It just is part of the money in the account and I just get or do what's needed
bubbs0809
by Emerald Member on Jan. 18, 2017 at 3:25 PM
direct deposit

Quoting Anonymous 1: Does it direct deposit or do you have a card for just support?

I have a card just for support. And I usually just use it for extras,easier.

Quoting bubbs0809: Household stuff
It just is part of the money in the account and I just get or do what's needed
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 18, 2017 at 3:26 PM
Dh and I just use our bank card,which he has 99% of the time so it works out this way. The way I see it is I paid 100% of the bills from day 1 till he's started to pay sporadic support so doesn't really matter what I spend it on bc I don't count on it.

Quoting Anonymous 2:

I spend it on bills and whatever my kids need. Its not for me.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 18, 2017 at 3:27 PM

i had to pay the 1st year. he doesnt pay much so i dont really rely on it for important stuff.

Quoting Anonymous 1: Dh and I just use our bank card,which he has 99% of the time so it works out this way. The way I see it is I paid 100% of the bills from day 1 till he's started to pay sporadic support so doesn't really matter what I spend it on bc I don't count on it.
Quoting Anonymous 2:

I spend it on bills and whatever my kids need. Its not for me.


sassysuie
by on Jan. 18, 2017 at 3:31 PM
Bills or what they need.
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