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My husband has the dumbest friend I swear!

Anonymous
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I can't stand the guy anyway, but twice now he has threatened to divorce his wife because they go 4-6 weeks without sex! No joke. Now he feels guilty because I guess she was diagnosed with Lupus, and was told she could live 6 months, 1 year, or 30 years...
Who does that?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2017 at 8:18 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 15, 2017 at 8:23 PM
Lots of husbands want sex more than once every 6 weeks
SAHMJC
by Emerald Member on Feb. 15, 2017 at 8:24 PM
But to divorce over it? Especially as she was ill?

Quoting Anonymous 2: Lots of husbands want sex more than once every 6 weeks
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 15, 2017 at 8:25 PM
Sex is important. My husband isn't satisfying me. I will eventually divorce him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 15, 2017 at 8:26 PM
He learned this after he made the divorce comment?

Sounds like he unhappy with the marriage. The diagnose just made he realize it wasn't just a choice.
iwicked
by Sugar Magnolia on Feb. 15, 2017 at 8:27 PM
Per your post, he didn't know she was sick when he was complaining.

Quoting SAHMJC: But to divorce over it? Especially as she was ill?

Quoting Anonymous 2: Lots of husbands want sex more than once every 6 weeks
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 15, 2017 at 8:28 PM
I wouldnt be happy in a marriage if it felt that i had to be for intimacy either.
I can understand him feeling bad, but he didnt know about the lupus before and neither did she.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Feb. 15, 2017 at 8:29 PM
This affects you how? STFU and MYOB.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2017 at 8:30 PM
The first time he said it, she was pregnant so he stayed. The second time I guess was before he found out she was ill.

Quoting Anonymous 4: He learned this after he made the divorce comment?

Sounds like he unhappy with the marriage. The diagnose just made he realize it wasn't just a choice.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Feb. 15, 2017 at 8:30 PM
This. Sex is very important to most men. Not just as a physical need for them, but also as a way they show their love. A month or more between times is a LONG time to go if there's not known reason why not. Now, if he continues to complain after her diagnosis, then he's an ass.

Quoting iwicked: Per your post, he didn't know she was sick when he was complaining.

Quoting SAHMJC: But to divorce over it? Especially as she was ill?

Quoting Anonymous 2: Lots of husbands want sex more than once every 6 weeks
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2017 at 8:31 PM
Where in my post did I say it affects me? Now what?!

Quoting Anonymous 6: This affects you how? STFU and MYOB.
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