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Guys stop talking to me when I tell them this

Anonymous
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I'm on a dating site. 99% of the time I am asked what I do for work. I say I can't work due to chronic health problems. No reply after that. Sometimes I'll be talking to the guy a few days but once that is mentioned I get no replies.
Is there something else I can say?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2017 at 12:36 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 21, 2017 at 12:38 AM
Really?

I met a millionaire when I was jobless single mother to 2 kids with 2 different fathers.

What's really wrong with you?
iwicked
by Sugar Magnolia on Feb. 21, 2017 at 12:39 AM
What are your chronic health problems? Maybe it's the reason they run the other way.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2017 at 12:40 AM
Yes and nothing that is all..I really do have chronic health problems.

Quoting Anonymous 2: Really?

I met a millionaire when I was jobless single mother to 2 kids with 2 different fathers.

What's really wrong with you?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2017 at 12:40 AM
I never tell them what I have.

Quoting iwicked: What are your chronic health problems? Maybe it's the reason they run the other way.
KendallsMommee
by Spoiled SAHM on Feb. 21, 2017 at 12:41 AM
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It kind of makes you sound immobile and sick.
tsatske2
by Latricia on Feb. 21, 2017 at 12:42 AM
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I have several factors, including being crazy, that chase men away. I put them in my profile, to save guys who don't like that thing from writing me. When they ask anyway (because men don't actually read profiles), I tell them, 'As it says on my profile...' I also have clear full body pics on my profile, so anyone that doesn't like my body size doesn't have to write.

Now if I could just get foreign men to quit writing, or at least be accepting when I state that distance is a deal breaker for me.

iwicked
by Sugar Magnolia on Feb. 21, 2017 at 12:42 AM
They are probably left thinking the worse.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I never tell them what I have.

Quoting iwicked: What are your chronic health problems? Maybe it's the reason they run the other way.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2017 at 12:42 AM
Ah I see. It's the truth so oh well I guess.

Quoting KendallsMommee: It kind of makes you sound immobile and sick.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2017 at 12:43 AM
They never ask. After I say that I don't get replies.

Quoting iwicked: They are probably left thinking the worse.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I never tell them what I have.

Quoting iwicked: What are your chronic health problems? Maybe it's the reason they run the other way.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 21, 2017 at 12:44 AM
Tell them you're a freelance domestic consultant.
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