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DH keeps me from my kid.

Anonymous
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Every time my DH gets mad at me he will be nasty to the point where I feel uncomfortable being around him. He will be chipper and friendly and playful with DS but with me hes deprecating and unkind and often borderline verbally abusive.

When he is this way he tries to keep ds away from me. He will take him to bed and make me sleep on the couch. Or vice versa, sleep in DS room and try to keep me out. Or ge will take DS to his moms. Or he will just take ds hand and lead him out of the room if he comes to see me.

DS is almost 3.

I do not know what to do when DH does this. I don't want to put DS in the middle of a battle of wills with DH. But I also don't want him trying to alienate my son from me.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2017 at 9:17 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 21, 2017 at 9:25 PM
You need to talk to him about that. That's so childish....But at the same time it gives you breathing room when dh upsets you.
corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Feb. 21, 2017 at 9:26 PM

Poison his tea with thallium.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2017 at 9:27 PM
But Im generally not the upset one. I will do something and he will get mad and then act this way.

Quoting Anonymous 2: You need to talk to him about that. That's so childish....But at the same time it gives you breathing room when dh upsets you.
celestegood
by Ruby Member on Feb. 21, 2017 at 9:28 PM

You are married and he is doing this to you?  You need to think what you need to do.  I can't tell you what to do, but don't let him alienate you from your own child.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2017 at 9:28 PM
Seems harsh. But a laxitive... thats appealing!

Quoting corticosteroid:

Poison his tea with thallium.

ShaMac
by Ruby Member on Feb. 21, 2017 at 9:29 PM
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Quoting corticosteroid:

Poison his tea with thallium.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2017 at 9:29 PM
thanks

Quoting celestegood:

You are married and he is doing this to you?  You need to think what you need to do.  I can't tell you what to do, but don't let him alienate you from your own child.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 21, 2017 at 9:30 PM
Dick punch
celestegood
by Ruby Member on Feb. 21, 2017 at 9:31 PM

Good luck.  I'm sorry you are dealing with this childish behavior via your dh.

Quoting Anonymous 1: thanks
Quoting celestegood:

You are married and he is doing this to you?  You need to think what you need to do.  I can't tell you what to do, but don't let him alienate you from your own child.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2017 at 9:31 PM
Any ideas that can help?

Quoting Anonymous 3: Dick punch
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