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BM And Bra Issue

Posted by on Mar. 18, 2017 at 11:24 PM
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BM and I get along really well. SD10 lives with DH and I full time.

BM and I decided awhile ago that when SD started developing, I would get her a few bras to get her by until BM could buy her some cute ones- to help BM feel like she was till part of SD"s life, ya know?

Well, BM called me last night to tell me she had found a really cute bra, but that it's a two pack and the second bra is a plain black one. BM's grandma did not allow her to have plain black bras, they were too 'sexy'. 

So, BM was calling to see if I would be okay with her buying SD a plain black bra.

I told her, "She is your DD. If you want to buy her a lacy bra, that is your prerogative. I will give it to her and she will love it because it came from you."

Of course, BM would never buy her a lacy bra at 10, lol

I love how open we are and how easily we co-parent, even from a distance, and do what we can to make SD's life easy and keep BM part of everything major going on in SD's life.

I feel so lucky to have this relationship with BM.

Thanks for reading!

Have a good night.

by on Mar. 18, 2017 at 11:24 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Mar. 18, 2017 at 11:30 PM
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Weird
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 18, 2017 at 11:32 PM
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Its great to hear of a good co parenting relationship. Especially on here.
EnlightenedMa
by Silver Member on Mar. 18, 2017 at 11:41 PM

What's weird?

Quoting Anonymous 1: Weird


EnlightenedMa
by Silver Member on Mar. 18, 2017 at 11:43 PM

Right?

They are so few and far between here.

Quoting Anonymous 2: Its great to hear of a good co parenting relationship. Especially on here.


EnlightenedMa
by Silver Member on Mar. 19, 2017 at 12:17 AM

BUMP!

tsatske2
by Latricia on Mar. 19, 2017 at 12:18 AM
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Good job, Mama! Co-parenting is hard, you and BM got lucky in each other. I hope DH knows how blessed he is, I hope DSD grows into knowing too. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Mar. 19, 2017 at 12:24 AM
1. That black bras = Slut
2. That she asked you permission about a bra
3. That you are both buying bras for the kid and she seems to have to input on it at all

Quoting EnlightenedMa:

What's weird?

Quoting Anonymous 1: Weird

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 19, 2017 at 12:37 AM
Huh black bra doesn't equal slutty. Wtf

Quoting Anonymous 1: 1. That black bras = Slut
2. That she asked you permission about a bra
3. That you are both buying bras for the kid and she seems to have to input on it at all

Quoting EnlightenedMa:

What's weird?

Quoting Anonymous 1: Weird

iwilliams76
by Platinum Member on Mar. 19, 2017 at 12:40 AM

good

EnlightenedMa
by Silver Member on Mar. 19, 2017 at 1:05 AM

I feel lucky, too.

And DH loves that we all get along. So does SD. :)

Quoting tsatske2:

Good job, Mama! Co-parenting is hard, you and BM got lucky in each other. I hope DH knows how blessed he is, I hope DSD grows into knowing too. 


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