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Why are y'all so negative about relationships?

Anonymous
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It seems like the suggested advice is always to leave because the the asker has no self- respect and guy is clearly bad for whatever reason.....

I think so many relationships fail because we think we deserve this perfect relationship that doesn't exist. No relationship is perfect.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 20, 2017 at 11:07 AM
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mary716
by on Mar. 20, 2017 at 11:08 AM
Agree!!! Bump
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 20, 2017 at 11:09 AM
No relationship is perfect, but if there is addiction, abuse or adultery, or any number of other non-negotiables, its perfectly fine to cut your losses and leave.
socalpoppy
by on Mar. 20, 2017 at 11:10 AM

I agree, too.  If we don't give others the benefit of the doubt, relationships won't last.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 20, 2017 at 11:10 AM
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Because most of the time (not all, but most) the men people post about on here are complete losers and abusers. Everyone else can see it but the OP. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 20, 2017 at 11:10 AM
I always wonder what the man's side of the story is. I only recommend leaving if he has cheated or been abusive.
redneckmama4
by Loree on Mar. 20, 2017 at 11:11 AM
Love is relative to each individual and situation. I don't really care how others handle their relationships.
Kmary
by Platinum Member on Mar. 20, 2017 at 11:14 AM
Agreed
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 20, 2017 at 11:15 AM
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Mine is perfect, but it takes a lot of work to make it our version of perfect. 

People don't seem to want to put in the work, shit gets hard and they run.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 20, 2017 at 11:16 AM
No relationship is perfect. I can't take you seriously. Sorry.

Quoting Anonymous 5:

Mine is perfect, but it takes a lot of work to make it our version of perfect. 

People don't seem to want to put in the work, shit gets hard and they run.

Momtoone07
by Emerald Member on Mar. 20, 2017 at 11:17 AM
There is always three sides. His side, get side and the truth. Lol

Quoting Anonymous 4: I always wonder what the man's side of the story is. I only recommend leaving if he has cheated or been abusive.
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