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How Long Can I Reasonably Keep This Secret From DH?

Anonymous
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I'm pregnant (at least according to 2 tests) and no clue how far along I am, the only regular thing about my cycle is it's irregular. We weren't trying but weren't avoiding and it's been like that for 6 yrs and never got pregnant so ya it was sort of like we probably not having anymore kids. So I need to figure out a Dr etc I also would like to know how far I am before I tell him. Is this reasonable? Also what are some good ways to surprise him with it?

I want to tell DH after I know more (how far I am etc)
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:35 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:37 PM
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I wouldn't keep that a secret for any longer than until he got home from work. I'd simply present the test and jump up and down but that's me. It really wouldn't matter how far along I was. I found out when I found out. We can go from there together.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:37 PM
Probably until the end of the pregnancy when you start to show.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:39 PM
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Put your pee test on a cake.
KeepOnTryin
by Melissa on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:40 PM
Why don't you want to tell him?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:40 PM
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I sort of want to make this special mainly because when I got pregnant with ds I was so shocked (many reasons we didn't think we could get pregnant) I threw the test at him and screamed "what the f@*% did you do to me?"

Quoting Anonymous 2: I wouldn't keep that a secret for any longer than until he got home from work. I'd simply present the test and jump up and down but that's me. It really wouldn't matter how far along I was. I found out when I found out. We can go from there together.
Mermaid65
by Ruby Member on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:40 PM
Why would you hide your pregnancy from your husband??!
Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:41 PM

Just put the pee sticks on a plate and put a cover on top. When he lifts the cover off just say.....SURPRISE

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:41 PM
I think I'm afraid something will go wrong or the tests are wrong

Quoting KeepOnTryin: Why don't you want to tell him?
Mermaid65
by Ruby Member on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:41 PM
This is cute! 💕

Quoting Anonymous 4:

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Put your pee test on a cake.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:41 PM
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Way to ruin a prefectly good cake,smh

Quoting Anonymous 4:

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Put your pee test on a cake.
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