DS 16 ruined his whole life by getting married when the baby probaby isnt even his!
DS came to me and told me today that he got married. A few weeks ago he told us he might have got a girl pregnant. He had slept with her once but she had a boyfriend. The boyfriend found out and left her now she is "100% sure" DS is the father
DS might be the father. At this point we have no way to know. This girl keeps changing how far along she is. For all we know she isnt even pregnant. Her parents refuse to talk to us about it.
DS and her cant even remember exactly when they had sex. They used a condom and so chances are it inst my son which is exactly what I told him. (She had regular unprotected sex with her boyfriend)
When DS told my ex my ex thought it was great! He thought it was amazing that there would be another addition to the family. His reaction alone made me cringe.
DS said he was going to kinda keep his distance until he knows for sure he is the father. Well I guess that changed because they decided to get married. I have a feeling that my ex pushed for it. He did the same when I got pregnant with DS and I refused to marry him. He feels like parents should always be married. He told DS that his kid would be better off in a home where his/her parents are together and in love
Now I could understand that more IF my son and this girl were together. They have never even gone on a date before. They hardly know each other. The whole thing is just so crazy. I fell like I am in a crazy dream.
DS doesnt even know he is the father. The chances are against him and even if he is that doesnt mean they should get married just because.
I thought both parents had to sign off to get married but nope, here in Nevada you only need one. I had to verify with my lawyer that it was true because I just couldnt believe it
I dont even know where to go from here. His plans are for him and her to live with my ex. I doubt he will last long living with his dad full time though. When the baby comes he will legally be the father no matter what, even if the baby isnt biologically his.