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Divorce

Anonymous
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Today my "ex" and I are going to mediation. We've been separated almost a year. I caught him with a hooker. It still breaks my heart. We were together 11 years. I can't stop crying.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 24, 2017 at 6:41 AM
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Grnyann65
by on Apr. 24, 2017 at 6:42 AM

Divorce is never easy, even when you know it's the right thing to do. 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 24, 2017 at 6:44 AM
I hope you don't have any diseases
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 24, 2017 at 6:45 AM
No. I've been tested 3 times since then trust me! Ugh!!

Quoting Anonymous 2: I hope you don't have any diseases
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 24, 2017 at 6:45 AM
I wouldn't be crying. I would be mad as hell and anxious to drop his nasty ass. No part of me would want him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 24, 2017 at 6:46 AM
I'm sorry your going through this

Quoting Anonymous 1: No. I've been tested 3 times since then trust me! Ugh!!

Quoting Anonymous 2: I hope you don't have any diseases
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 24, 2017 at 6:47 AM
Be happy you caught him and have the strength to end it with someone who has so little respect for you.
nanny1918
by Ruby Member on Apr. 24, 2017 at 6:47 AM
I know it hurts now. Just be strong and you will get through this. I promise.
ayacocca
by Lioness on Apr. 24, 2017 at 6:58 AM
Do you truly desire to remain married to this person? Are you still intimate with him after that transgression?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 24, 2017 at 7:34 AM
No. Not at all. I kicked his sorry ass to the curb the day I got the court papers. Nearly a year ago. We both have found other significant others and are happy. We just aren't "divorced" yet.

Quoting ayacocca: Do you truly desire to remain married to this person? Are you still intimate with him after that transgression?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 24, 2017 at 7:39 AM
I go back and forth. 11 years and 4 kids is a lot invested in a life. I have a boyfriend, which is incredible. My "ex" has a girlfriend who is incredible. But sometimes my feelings come around and smack me in the face.

Quoting Anonymous 3: I wouldn't be crying. I would be mad as hell and anxious to drop his nasty ass. No part of me would want him.
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