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A question for divorced women/women who are both longer with their kids' dad

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Did you have a hard time moving on? Were you still obsessing years after the break up, posting poor me I miss my ex statuses on fb, texting him pathetic sad texts at all hours of the night about how hard it I'd to go on without him, telling him youd gladly take him back so you could have your family back even though he has long since moved on and gotten married? Did you bug your kids for details about stepmom and dads relationship Everytime they came back from being at Dad's house, make snarky shitty remarks about stepmom being temporary and not to get attached and act like the split is just a temporary thing?
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 4, 2017 at 6:38 PM
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jun. 4, 2017 at 6:39 PM

From my Ex-DH...Nope

From My Ex-SO...after I finally left him after over a decade of abuse for good...Nope

12345abcde54321
by Ruby Member on Jun. 4, 2017 at 6:39 PM
No. He used me, lied to me, manipulated me, cheated on me. I walked out with no regrets. I have pain due to my children's loss of their family but I barely grieved the marriage because he fucked it up so bad.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 4, 2017 at 6:40 PM
Another concerned SM post...
jules2boys
by on Jun. 4, 2017 at 6:40 PM
Nope, not once in the last 12 years.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 4, 2017 at 6:41 PM
1 mom liked this
I wish he'd leave. I'd get over him fast.
bubbs0809
by Emerald Member on Jun. 4, 2017 at 6:42 PM
Moving on/letting go is difficult
Especially if you are not the one who wanted it
To end
ReaIisticbeauti
by Gold Member on Jun. 4, 2017 at 6:42 PM
No. He was the one who did everything you mentioned.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 4, 2017 at 6:43 PM
😂😂😂

Quoting Anonymous 3: I wish he'd leave. I'd get over him fast.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jun. 4, 2017 at 6:43 PM
Couldn't run from him fast enough. I do ask the girls things because he is an alcoholic and a shitty father with a live in gf even though we aren't divorced.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jun. 4, 2017 at 6:43 PM
Nope, not at all. I really struggled with the end of my family as I imagined/expected it to be, but I never once wanted him back.
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