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Your SO watching porn

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Do you care if your SO watches porn without you?

If so, WHY?
Would you be against it in any relationship, or just your current situation?

What about people who say, "I should be enough for him"


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*Im surprised how varied the answers are. For a lot of people porn and masturbation is a normal, natural part of life and doesn't negatively effect their sex live, self esteem, or relationship

Other people really seem to view it as perverse, immoral, or a threat to their relationship

I think the only "wrong" answers are the people who think that they can make the call for others.
Just because porn negatively effects you, your partner, or your relationship doesn't mean it's bad for others
But it's also true that just because you & your SO can enjoy porn together, or separately, healthy & happily doesn't mean everyone can

I'm shocked how totally differently people feel, I'm also seriously amused by all the blanket statements people are making
This got some of the most varied and interesting replies of any post I've ever made in MC, thanks!
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 17, 2017 at 7:04 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 17, 2017 at 7:05 AM
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I have friends who get upset about their husbands or boyfriends watching porn.

I just don't get it
aprilsalcro
by Ruby Member on Jun. 17, 2017 at 7:07 AM
Nope don't care. Now sure why it would bother anyone
ReaIisticbeauti
by Gold Member on Jun. 17, 2017 at 7:07 AM
It wouldnt bother me.
notjstasocermom
by Sapphire Member on Jun. 17, 2017 at 7:08 AM
No
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 17, 2017 at 7:08 AM
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I used to. Because he was addicted to it, and he spent more time with the computer screen and his hand then me. Of course it was upsetting. It made me feel like I wasn't good enough when I'd beg him to come to bed and he'd stay up all night watching porn instead. Now that he's cut way back, I'm ok with with it. So long as he doesn't go back to ignoring me for it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 17, 2017 at 7:11 AM

Years ago when we were young in our marriage and my husband found porn on the Internet, it was new to him. Yes, we watched it sometimes together and I admit that I have watched it to alone, still do, but for about two years of our marriage, he watched porn more that he wanted to make love to me. It almost cost us our marriage. Through A LOT of conversations, he understands my frustrations and we worked things out. Yes, I know sometimes he still watches porn but we are back to having sex several times a week.

Tigress22304
by Platinum Member on Jun. 17, 2017 at 7:11 AM
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nope

fuck no

don't care

he's not bothering my ass-so why would I care?!

He doesn't get bothered if I watch porn.

I don't get why this is a thing.

jellybeanjean
by All the makeup on Jun. 17, 2017 at 7:34 AM
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Occasionally I feel insecure when I think of it, but mostly I don't care. I watch porn and movies where I think the men are hot so I guess it evens out.
kjb1984
by Silver Member on Jun. 17, 2017 at 7:38 AM

Doesn't bother me.

AngelSinger
by MS Warrior on Jun. 17, 2017 at 8:34 AM
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I would only care if it was a type of porn that is completely unacceptable: pedophilia, rape, bestiality, and so on.
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