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adoption

Posted by on Jun. 19, 2017 at 9:14 AM
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hi i decided to put my baby up for adoption iam 17 and preg what do u guys think iam not ready for kids

by on Jun. 19, 2017 at 9:14 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jun. 19, 2017 at 9:15 AM
Yeah...youll always regret it
dipndots
by on Jun. 19, 2017 at 9:17 AM
The only thing I know is that I don't want your baby.
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Jun. 19, 2017 at 9:17 AM
Good choice!
ditsyjo
by Gold Member on Jun. 19, 2017 at 9:17 AM
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Take you time and think about what you are doing. Speak to the counselor at the adoption agency and chose the adoptive parents carefully. Good luck
quinnsmom715
by Ruby Member on Jun. 19, 2017 at 9:19 AM

i know people push adoption instead of abortion but adoption isnt the unicorns and rainbows people think it issometimes the kid gets lucky and has great parents..others end up in abusive unhappy homes.you never know what youre putting your baby into..think long and hard..

GOBryan
by on Jun. 19, 2017 at 9:26 AM
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If you don't have the means to support the child, it's probably a good idea and unselfish idea.. You can probably do an Open Adoption so you can stay in contact or allow the child to contact you later in life. 

I have a friend that did that when she was 15 and when her daughter was in her 30s, they reunited. The child had a great life with her adopted parents and she thanked her for it.. My friend did not regret her decision.  

GOBryan
by on Jun. 19, 2017 at 9:27 AM
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Unfortunately, same thing can happen with bio parents.. It's called life. 

Steve Jobs was adopted also.. besides, she can consider an open adoption. 

Quoting quinnsmom715:

i know people push adoption instead of abortion but adoption isnt the unicorns and rainbows people think it issometimes the kid gets lucky and has great parents..others end up in abusive unhappy homes.you never know what youre putting your baby into..think long and hard..


fullxbusymom
by Sapphire Member on Jun. 19, 2017 at 9:27 AM

Great  decision. 

fullxbusymom
by Sapphire Member on Jun. 19, 2017 at 9:28 AM

You do not know this. 

Quoting Anonymous 1: Yeah...youll always regret it


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