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BM asked if she could move in with us

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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We told her HELL no! Her and her ex? bf got evicted for the second time. No one will rent to her. None of her family will have her around. She says that it is either she moves in with us or her and the kids will be homeless. 

DH told her that the kids wont ever be homless. That they can stay with us during her time also but she couldnt

It would be one thing if she was asking to stay for a few days because it was an emergency or something but she wants to move in with us full time for good. She said we can all be one big happy famiy and we could coparent easier

Now she is trying to blame me and DH. She even posted on facebook that she would be sleeping in her car. 

DH is meeting with a lawyer tomorrow and hopefully can get an emergency court order giving him custody until everything gets figured out

Most of the people that know us see nothing wrong with us say no to her moving in but some are really talking crap about us. Oh well. Her bad decisions are not our problem

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 19, 2017 at 8:30 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 19, 2017 at 8:31 PM

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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jun. 19, 2017 at 8:31 PM
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DH is doing the right thing by going for emergency custody. Since this is her 2nd eviction, he should go for full custody

bluebunnybabe
by kid crack dealer on Jun. 19, 2017 at 8:32 PM
Yeah, that would be a big hell no.
GOBryan
by on Jun. 19, 2017 at 8:58 PM

You two are NOT responsible for her.. She is her own problem.. Take in the kids and tell her to find a shelter somewhere but not with your family since that would be a very uncomfortable and inconvenient situation for your family. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 20, 2017 at 9:20 AM
Hell to the no!! She must be crazy lol
MenopauseManiac
by Ruby Member on Jun. 20, 2017 at 9:21 AM
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Hi, creative troll.

ilovemykids323
by Emerald Member on Jun. 20, 2017 at 9:21 AM

yeah i'd take the kids but not her... there will be people on here that say you should because she's the motherof his kids...but ignore them they crazy.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 20, 2017 at 9:21 AM
Is she nuts!! Hell no!!
If she moves in, she'll never leave! She can't take care of herself. You and dh will be doing that!
Take the kids, she can find a shelter.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jun. 20, 2017 at 9:22 AM

There is no way in hell BM would ever move in with us

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jun. 20, 2017 at 9:24 AM
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I don't believe any of your post.

And no one would be giving you crap for making that decision. 

trolls don't stop

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