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He resents me for being pregnant

Anonymous
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I'm 10 weeks pregnant and my bf is so mad.

Before I found out I was pregnant we were going to make a big move to California and now he's saying we don't have the money for that.

He hasn't been too mean but I can tell he resents me for being pregnant.

Yesterday i went to my doctors appointment after work and he was supposed to pick me up but didn't and I waited and missed the bus. He didn't answer my texts or call. I waited two hours until the next bus and went home.

Then he was mad about me being late and not getti ng dinner ready. He said I am getting more stupid now that I'm knocked up. I guess I have got more forgetful but I know he never called to say he wasn't coming.

I'm afraid for the future. Things just aren't good and I don't know what will happen. Sometimes I want to leave him but I'm just feeling so uncertain.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 8, 2017 at 3:11 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 8, 2017 at 3:13 PM
Why would you feel uncertain about someone who treats you that way. It is not acceptable. Get out of the crappy relationship now.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 8, 2017 at 3:14 PM
I don't know if he's being real bad or if my mind is foggy from being pregnant.

Quoting Anonymous 2: Why would you feel uncertain about someone who treats you that way. It is not acceptable. Get out of the crappy relationship now.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 8, 2017 at 3:15 PM
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You wouldn't be pregnant if it weren't for him, so...
Don't stay with that jerk
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 8, 2017 at 3:15 PM
Why did/do you allow him to talk to you that way?
quinnsmom715
by Ruby Member on Aug. 8, 2017 at 3:15 PM
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have an abortion.dump the loser.you know he will suck as a father..

Not_A_Native
by Ruby Member on Aug. 8, 2017 at 3:16 PM

He didn't want a baby, and now he feels trapped.  It's not rocket science.

JalynSpoon
by CajunTarHeel on Aug. 8, 2017 at 3:17 PM

Leave.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Aug. 8, 2017 at 3:17 PM
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He is an asshole. He's telling you through his actions. Listen. Can you imagine what he will be like when the baby arrives?

quinnsmom715
by Ruby Member on Aug. 8, 2017 at 3:17 PM

and he had nothing to do with it?

Quoting Not_A_Native:

He didn't want a baby, and now he feels trapped.  It's not rocket science.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 8, 2017 at 3:17 PM
This is how he's always been.

Quoting Anonymous 4: Why did/do you allow him to talk to you that way?
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