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Has your DH ever said

Anonymous
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Has he ever said he wants a divorce? But doesn't actually mean anything by it?
We were fighting about a week ago and DH said "fine fuck you I want a divorce"I told him " fine by me have fun with NOTHING!(because everything we have, and is a lot is all in my name) And fuck if you'll ever see your kids again"
Side note: we both say very mean things while fighting but never mean them.
Wondering if me and him are the only ones who throw the D Word around?
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 8, 2017 at 8:43 PM
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LightItUp
by RitatheGreat on Aug. 8, 2017 at 8:44 PM
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No, Divorce is a very serious thing to us that we don't/wouldn't joke about.

We don't do dirty fighting with curses and name calling either
onethentwins
by Ruby Member on Aug. 8, 2017 at 8:45 PM
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Never once in our 27 year marriage.  Also, we've never said "fuck you" and DH has never once called me a bitch. 

DrunkTrophyWife
by Silver Member on Aug. 8, 2017 at 8:45 PM
Never
AnnieGoolaheey
by Mrs. Annie Proffitt on Aug. 8, 2017 at 8:46 PM
We don't.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 8, 2017 at 8:46 PM
No.

I said it though quite a few times until I finally did it. I don't think he thought I ever would.
AnnieGoolaheey
by Mrs. Annie Proffitt on Aug. 8, 2017 at 8:47 PM
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Oh, and I would never, ever threaten him with never seeing his kids again.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 8, 2017 at 8:47 PM
Yes he says it every time we fight. It's his go to thing - something he can say that hurts me the most... I tell him to fucking go...
mcginnisc
by *Claire-Bear* on Aug. 8, 2017 at 8:48 PM

No.. never. 

Claire


" I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 

onethentwins
by Ruby Member on Aug. 8, 2017 at 8:48 PM
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How do you deal with that? I couldn't live that way. How awful for you. 

Quoting Anonymous 3: Yes he says it every time we fight. It's his go to thing - something he can say that hurts me the most... I tell him to fucking go...


Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 8, 2017 at 8:50 PM
No, we don't. We also don't talk to eachother the way the two of you. In general, we make it a practice not to say things we don't mean.
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