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Husband's love child

Anonymous
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What would you do if you found out your husband had a child around the age of your kids with another woman?

I've known about this for a few months now. My husband wants to bring the kid around and meet our children. I have nothing against the child, he didn't do anything. But I'm wondering how to even introduce him to my kids.

How should I go about this? My kids are 5 and 2. This little boy is 2 as well.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 15, 2017 at 1:37 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 15, 2017 at 1:40 PM
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I would pretend the kid doesn't exist and I would start drafting divorce papers at work (if he cheated). It's not something I would want to deal with.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 15, 2017 at 1:40 PM
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There's no way I could stick things out with him if he had another child outside of our marriage DURING the marriage.

Nothing against the innocent child but no. I'm out.
Canadiana
by Platinum Member on Aug. 15, 2017 at 1:40 PM

Well it's your kids sibling, so that would make you an ass to bury your head in the sand too. 

Quoting Anonymous 2: I would pretend the kid doesn't exist and I would start drafting divorce papers at work (if he cheated). It's not something I would want to deal with.


Damn_Pixi
by Morgie on Aug. 15, 2017 at 1:41 PM

We would deal with it. 

DH and I were not together when I had my girls.  lol 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 15, 2017 at 1:41 PM
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Then I'm an ass. Not my problem.

Quoting Canadiana:

Well it's your kids sibling, so that would make you an ass to bury your head in the sand too. 

Quoting Anonymous 2: I would pretend the kid doesn't exist and I would start drafting divorce papers at work (if he cheated). It's not something I would want to deal with.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 15, 2017 at 1:41 PM
Couldn't do it.
owl0210
by Sapphire Member on Aug. 15, 2017 at 1:41 PM
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Oh hell no. He can deal with it when he becomes single.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Aug. 15, 2017 at 1:42 PM
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I would divorce his ass. He could figure out that shit show during his visitation time. I wouldn't stay with a cheater. I wouldn't teach my kids it is an acceptable thing to put up with.
MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Aug. 15, 2017 at 1:42 PM
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What would I do? Divorce my husband. He can deal with his children on his own.
TiffanyRose06
by Queso<3 on Aug. 15, 2017 at 1:43 PM
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If they were the same age as my oldest I would encourage a relationship and open my arms to the child too

If they were the same age as my youngest I would file for divorce. Cheating is unforgivable
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