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how is this against dress code?

Anonymous
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my dd wears a waist trainer to keep herself at the size of her corsets so she doesn't have to condition herself to them when the renaissance fair comes around. she wearing the waist trainer under her clothes so obviously, no one usually sees it. well during class today her teacher asked her to pick up a box, her shirt rolled up when she adjusted it on her hip. the teacher told her to go up to the office because the trainer was against dress code and inappropriate. how is a black piece of fabric inappropriate? it's not like is lingerie. the principal called me because dd was refusing to remove it, I asked her (principal) if she would want dd to remove her bra too since it has lace on it, since they are so worried about "inappropriateness" how about they dictate what underwear and bras girls wear also.

the principal was not happy. there is nothing wrong about a black trainer UNDER her clothes.

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 16, 2017 at 2:24 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 16, 2017 at 2:25 PM
Is it lacy or ties up the back with a ribbon?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 16, 2017 at 2:25 PM
Trololol.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 16, 2017 at 2:25 PM
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What fucking parent lets their kid wear something so damaging?!?!?!? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 16, 2017 at 2:26 PM

no, it clasps in the front with I think 15 eyelets.

Quoting Anonymous 2: Is it lacy or ties up the back with a ribbon?


bananasnberries
by Silver Member on Aug. 16, 2017 at 2:27 PM
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That's ridiculous. I would have said the same thing you did.
They can't ask her to remove an undergarment whether it be a waist trianer or something else.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 16, 2017 at 2:27 PM
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when done properly it's not damaging at all. 

Quoting Anonymous 4:

What fucking parent lets their kid wear something so damaging?!?!?!? 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Aug. 16, 2017 at 2:28 PM
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So she damages her body year round for a two week(at most) event? Nice.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Aug. 16, 2017 at 2:28 PM
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I find this entire situation and everyone involved very strange
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Aug. 16, 2017 at 2:28 PM
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I don't see how it violates school rules. I also don't understand why you're letting her wear that.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 16, 2017 at 2:29 PM

there's no damage at all when done properly. and Renaissance faires run for 3 months. not 2 weeks.

Quoting Anonymous 5: So she damages her body year round for a two week(at most) event? Nice.


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