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If it happens I will not be a good mother.

Posted by on Aug. 19, 2017 at 12:22 AM
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I made my own choice and accepted the responsibility when I had my two girls. I also make it very clear to my girls that they are all I want and I will not have any more nor do I want to raise their kids. If they get pregnant they are on their own. I don't care if they are young or not.

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honeyrder
by on Aug. 19, 2017 at 12:24 AM
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Raising your kids' kids is not being a good mother. It's actually a total fail.
thebadkitty
by Platinum Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 12:25 AM

I was told if I do not offer to raise my kids kids I was a terrible mother.

Quoting honeyrder: Raising your kids' kids is not being a good mother. It's actually a total fail.


Jblb
by Emerald Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 12:27 AM
I wouldn't either.
VegetaPrincess
by Platinum Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 12:28 AM

I can't raise a grandchild. I literally can't. So if he decides to have one young, he's going to have to get his shit together really fast and figure it out. 

LaughinTattoo7
by Frenchy on Aug. 19, 2017 at 12:30 AM

I would at a drop if my grandchildren were in danger or going to be taken away.

.MiaBella.
by Mia on Aug. 19, 2017 at 12:31 AM


Quoting Jblb: I wouldn't either.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 12:31 AM
I would offer to help them in ways that have them a hand up, not a hand out. I would also never raise their children. That would be me failing them. I would hope to help equip them to raise their own children. Raising their children for them is out of the question though barring extreme circumstances like both parents dying or, for some reason, both parents being physically or mentally unable to raise their children.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 12:32 AM
Not always. Once they hit a certain age They make thwir own decision and choices

Quoting honeyrder: Raising your kids' kids is not being a good mother. It's actually a total fail.
honeyrder
by on Aug. 19, 2017 at 12:36 AM
By an idiot, so...

Quoting thebadkitty:

I was told if I do not offer to raise my kids kids I was a terrible mother.

Quoting honeyrder: Raising your kids' kids is not being a good mother. It's actually a total fail.

thebadkitty
by Platinum Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 12:37 AM

I didnt know I was dealing with trauma?

Quoting Anonymous 3: I hope everything gets better for you.


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