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it hurts to have sex

Anonymous
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Idk if it's his girth, how hard we go or how long we go... but trying to go for that second round, I can't do it. Today was kinda easy/slow. But I had multiple orgasms... like soak the bed orgasms, and it was almost an hour long.

I was definitely ready for a round 2... but I was really, really tight and it started to having a burning sensation. We tried different positions, he was doing other things to get me ready/relaxed (which I orgasmed to), I tried to grin and bear it.

It's frustrating bc I do want it and I know he's not satisfied with just the one session... but the pain is unbareable.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 19, 2017 at 3:43 AM
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.oOPoisonOo.
by Bronze Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 3:49 AM
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KendallsMommee
by Spoiled SAHM on Aug. 19, 2017 at 3:53 AM
How old are you?

I'm in perimenopause (43) and I have noticed that in last year or so, I can't go two or three rounds with dh like I use to. I close up like a safe after a couple of orgasms. He has to get his afterwards or try to keep pace with me or he's SOL. Lol!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 19, 2017 at 3:59 AM
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29. I've thought about whether it's something like that. I don't have periods, but that's bc of pcos... but lately, I've been having some crazy hot flashes.

8 years ago, we'd go like rabbits. The most was over 10 times. I'd be sensitive but not like this. But the sessions weren't as long either. Then the frequency went down but we'd go for a longer time.

I feel like telling him I can only handle quickies- which are still 15-20 minutes. And then seeing how that goes for me. But I know we both enjoy the longer ones

Quoting KendallsMommee: How old are you?

I'm in perimenopause (43) and I have noticed that in last year or so, I can't go two or three rounds with dh like I use to. I close up like a safe after a couple of orgasms. He has to get his afterwards or try to keep pace with me or he's SOL. Lol!
tsatske2
by Latricia on Aug. 19, 2017 at 4:01 AM

If sex hurts, you need to see a doctor. Sexual health is important. Talk to your OB. 

ranchmama21
by Gold Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 4:19 AM

Sex can hurt for me at times at specific times of my cycle. Hubby is very understanding and enjoys quickies.

Whether he likes it or not, you have to go with what your body is telling you. Changing it up and trying new things can help. Change up lubrication, positions, arousal strategies etc. Importantly, need to talk to your OB to make sure everything is healthy down there. My fertility specialist told me it is common for sex to hurt with pcos patients and those with a tilted and shorter vaginal. Hormones don't help the situation either...can be a complete bummer when the mind is ready to go and the body is putting some brakes on.

VegetaPrincess
by Platinum Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 4:32 AM

He's taking too long. Is he doing that on purpose even though he knows it's hurting you (which is really fucked up) or does it just take him that long to cum? 

If it just takes him that long, he needs to start masturbating more and training himself to be able to cum more quickly when he needs to. That way you two can go more than once and you can actually enjoy it. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 4:42 AM
Something is wrong. Go to the doctor.
AppleBlossom16
by Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 5:41 AM
Thrush, std?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 5:41 AM
I can't go 2 rounds.

Sometimes after an orgasm I get so sensitive I am done.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 5:45 AM

lube lots and lots of lube

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