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Why even risk it?!

Anonymous
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I was raped by a guy who previously raped me. I went out with a friend and ended up leaving early cuz I got uncomfortable. I got an abortion and my dh was fully supportive of it. After everything was said and done he filed for divorce and said I killed his child. When u brought up that it could have been my rapists he said I could have just given it up for adoption if that were the case. And let our 6 year old think he was getting a sibling? No. The judge even had my side on the whole thing and ruled ex unfit and unstable.

Now I'm completely isolated because the fucker has gone around saying I killed his child.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 19, 2017 at 7:30 PM
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tsatske2
by Latricia on Aug. 19, 2017 at 7:32 PM

Is your entire family and every friend you have so pro-life that they don't even believe in abortion in cases of rape?

peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 7:32 PM
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What???
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 19, 2017 at 7:39 PM
They all believe him. He's been telling them this son story that I did it to get back at him for am argument.

Quoting tsatske2:

Is your entire family and every friend you have so pro-life that they don't even believe in abortion in cases of rape?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 7:39 PM
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I think you had the right 100% to have an abortion.

I think he has 100% right to be upset you could have aborted his child.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 19, 2017 at 7:40 PM
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If he had that concern he should have said it BEFORE telling me to go get one.

Quoting Anonymous 2: I think you had the right 100% to have an abortion.

I think he has 100% right to be upset you could have aborted his child.
Bibbidibobidibo
by on Aug. 19, 2017 at 7:41 PM
Yeah, come back when the crack wears off.

Quoting peanutsmommy1: What???
tsatske2
by Latricia on Aug. 19, 2017 at 7:43 PM
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How do you feel about telling your story? You have every right to keep the rape private, but also every right to tell people the truth if you choose to. You can even pick and choose who to tell and who to just let it go.

get in a rape support group and start seeing a counselor. Good luck. God bless you.

Quoting Anonymous 1: They all believe him. He's been telling them this son story that I did it to get back at him for am argument.
Quoting tsatske2:

Is your entire family and every friend you have so pro-life that they don't even believe in abortion in cases of rape?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 19, 2017 at 8:11 PM

he didn't? he would have if I kept it and then gave it up.

Quoting Anonymous 3: Why did your 6 yo know?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 8:14 PM
What??? You should not breed.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 19, 2017 at 8:16 PM
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what?

Quoting Anonymous 4: What??? You should not breed.


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