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How would your dh react? Sex tmi

Anonymous
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How would your dh react if you wanted to spice up your love life?

I am not saying anything crazy. Just some xxx movies to watch and a vibrator? I am asking to get a man's pov.

My dh and I only have sex like once or twice a week. I always want it and dh always doesnt. And this morning we had sex if that is what you call it. All it was was me giving him a bj. And then doggy style. It lasted all of 4 minutes. I didn't get any pleasure from it because I don't get turned ion by giving bj and the actual sex lasted 2 minutes.

So I thought about spicing it up a little and hopefully he will get more interested in sex. So I bought a vibrator and I got 3 free porno dvds that the company I bought the vibrator from threw in for free.

But I don't know how my dh will react. He used to watch porno on the net but wouldn't get aroused by it. And admitted once to watch three in a row one night on tv. And looks at this nudie mini magazine he get for free through the mail.

But I don't know how he would react to watching one with me.

So how would you dh react if you did this?



Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 19, 2017 at 10:03 PM
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redbottoms
by Platinum Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 10:05 PM
if he won't get you off then you have to do it yourself so vibrators sound like a good idea. Its easier to cum if you use the vibrator on your clit while he is fucking you. There are lots of ways to spice up your love life. You can talk to him about some ideas and see what you might want to try. Role playing, porn, toys, restraints, lubes, lingerie, costumes, having sex in different positions or different locations.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 10:05 PM
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Sounds like you have a boooooorrrrrinnnngg sex life. I feel bad for you. Especially if you think porn and a vibrator is exciting.

I wouldn't have married my DH if we weren't compatible in bed.
Quakercaoimhe
by Esperantisto on Aug. 19, 2017 at 10:06 PM
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I'd have him read some actual literature on having sex with and pleasing vaginas. And probably several articles on pornography impacting health and relationships. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 10:08 PM
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Mine is just as freaky as me we do it at least once a day. Does your hubs ever go down on you seriously and man you doesn't properly know how to eat pu**y should be dropped
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 10:08 PM
While he is doing it doggy style, do what Red said and whip out the bullet vibrator and kiss your clit with it
justinnaimee
by Ruby Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 10:08 PM
He'd probably wonder why I didn't just get pork online and why I need another vibe. But since he's not boring he'd go with it.
redbottoms
by Platinum Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 10:10 PM
amen to this
but a man that is bad at going down on me is somehow worse than nothing at all

Quoting Anonymous 3: Mine is just as freaky as me we do it at least once a day. Does your hubs ever go down on you seriously and man you doesn't properly know how to eat pu**y should be dropped
notjstasocermom
by Sapphire Member on Aug. 19, 2017 at 10:10 PM
I would find more interactive ways to spice it up. Has he always been like this? What does he say when you talk about it?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 10:11 PM

We have used my sex toy, (like a vibrator but not a vibrator) and we have watched porn.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Aug. 19, 2017 at 10:11 PM
We watch porn together and he's the one who bought me my first vibrator (he bought the last one too) so those things are the norm for us.
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