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I think I outed my gay brother in law

Anonymous
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So I set up my new phone a week ago and saw all my phone contacts were synced to Instagram..which is fine. However I strolling through instagram and I recognized my brother in law with makeup and hashtaging #gaylife#Iloveboys and other gay inspiration quotes. I was so shocked but was also happy for him at the same time. The only problem is, is that my dh comes from a very homophobic family including my dh and both of their fathers..long story short I could not keep this from dh so when I told him he was furious. He then stormed off and said I'm calling my father, he is going to kill my. Brother. Then I said " I will NEVER forgive you, because he needs to come out on his own time..was I wrong for telling my spouse, or should I have kept it a secret that I wasn't even suppose to know.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 21, 2017 at 3:49 PM
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Johnsmom5892
by Elijah on Aug. 21, 2017 at 3:51 PM
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Its your brother in laws news, not yours.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 21, 2017 at 3:51 PM
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You were wrong. Call your bil and apologize and tell him what's coming.
bluebunnybabe
by kid crack dealer on Aug. 21, 2017 at 3:51 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong but I don't know why you felt the need to tell your husband.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 21, 2017 at 3:52 PM
So you have kept that secret from your husband

Quoting Johnsmom5892: Its your brother in laws news, not yours.
Johnsmom5892
by Elijah on Aug. 21, 2017 at 3:52 PM
Yup

Quoting Anonymous 1: So you have kept that secret from your husband

Quoting Johnsmom5892: Its your brother in laws news, not yours.
Damn_Pixi
by Morgie on Aug. 21, 2017 at 3:53 PM
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THANK THE GODS that I'm not married to a homophobic peice of shit!

Your poor BIL.... 

You shouldn't have told your husband, it wasn't your news to tell. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 21, 2017 at 3:53 PM
Its hard for me to keep secrets from dh

Quoting bluebunnybabe: Maybe I'm wrong but I don't know why you felt the need to tell your husband.
MeaganP
by Platinum Member on Aug. 21, 2017 at 3:54 PM
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Why would you open your mouth

That was just mean

AnotherKim
by Platinum Member on Aug. 21, 2017 at 3:54 PM
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Knowing what an asshole your husband is, yes.

Iguessiwasbad13
by Platinum Member on Aug. 21, 2017 at 3:54 PM
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Why if you knew how his family felt would you do that to him? Do you hate him that much?
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