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I think my husband may be cheating....

Anonymous
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I don't know what to do or how to find out. He's been going out a lot lately. He's at the "gym" right now. I'm about 80% sure that's not where he is. He does this most morning now and is gone for about 2 hours. Then, he goes to work. Then he "stays late." I drove by his office yesterday and then I called to ask if he was still there. He said he was still there, but his car wasn't there. After work last night, he came home way late with no explanation. He is always trying to pick fights with me and anytime I ask him a question he immediately becomes very defensive. THIS IS NOT FAIR!!! I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND JUST WANT HIM TO STOP WITH ALL THE BULLSHIT AND BE A GOOD HUSBAND!!!!! HELP!!!!!
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 13, 2017 at 10:03 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 13, 2017 at 10:04 AM
Bump
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 13, 2017 at 10:04 AM
My ex used to shower BEFORE he said he was going to the gym. Red flag.

Yours is showing all the classic signs.
MominCa
by Bronze Member on Sep. 13, 2017 at 10:05 AM
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sounds like something going on .. have you asked him? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 13, 2017 at 10:06 AM
We can't help the douche see reason.
We can however help YOU too.

Chin up honey buns.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Sep. 13, 2017 at 10:06 AM
Sounds like it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Sep. 13, 2017 at 10:07 AM
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Why didn't you confront him? Are you just going to let him continue to cheat?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Sep. 13, 2017 at 10:07 AM
He could also be at the gym. DH goes M-F before work. As for staying late I don't know. But instead of driving yourself crazy just ask him flat out.
You're allowing your mind run wild which is turning you into it of a stalker.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 13, 2017 at 10:23 AM
Yes, he gets all defensive and tries to tell me something I did wrong and totally change the subject.

Quoting MominCa:

sounds like something going on .. have you asked him? 

mama.willow
by Member on Sep. 13, 2017 at 10:24 AM

Kick him in the balls.... cheating is terrible.

corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Sep. 13, 2017 at 10:24 AM

I bet he's doing drugs.

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