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I need a little f@&$ing help!

Anonymous
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Just a tad from dh while I finish my degree. I'm in class 6 hours a day/4 days a week and I work 3 days a week. I get the kids up and off to school in the morning, clean the house, grocery shop, study, pick the kids up, pay the pills, dr appts. etc when I'm not working or in class. Dh seems to think because he works 60hours/wk that means he doesn't have to lift a finger when he's home. A few nights I've spent my dinner break at school rushing home to give the kids a bath because dh was too tired to do it. Today before I left I thought my youngest had an accident. I told dh because I didn't have time to clean him up. When I got home he hadn't been changed! 2.5 hours later! Dh was sleeping and said he forgot. Are you fucking kidding me?!?!? I just spent my break cleaning up shit and it's tracked all through the house! I have to go back now but I had to vent before I went apeshit on dh as I leave.

My dd is up watching the boys so the sleeping wasn't so much of an issue but she shouldn't have to clean up poop especially when I told dh it happened before I left!
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 18, 2017 at 7:37 PM
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corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Sep. 18, 2017 at 7:39 PM

I was with you until you said your daughter "shouldn't have to clean up poop".


Schnauzerlove76
by Bronze Member on Sep. 18, 2017 at 7:42 PM
I hear you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 18, 2017 at 7:42 PM
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Her daughter didn't make the poop, and I think there's a big difference between expecting a 9 year old to clean up her sibling and expecting a 14 year old to do it.

Quoting corticosteroid:

I was with you until you said your daughter "shouldn't have to clean up poop".

3gr8tKids
by Platinum Member on Sep. 18, 2017 at 7:42 PM
Sounds like you both have very full days. Congratulations on keeping all those balls I the air.
Here is a bump for your post.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 18, 2017 at 7:46 PM
She's 11 and ds (4) had diarrhea.

Quoting corticosteroid:

I was with you until you said your daughter "shouldn't have to clean up poop".

corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Sep. 18, 2017 at 7:49 PM

Why is she babysitting?

Quoting Anonymous 1: She's 11 and ds (4) had diarrhea.
Quoting corticosteroid:

I was with you until you said your daughter "shouldn't have to clean up poop".


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 18, 2017 at 7:51 PM

Make a list of things you need him to do and stop enabling him

DensHag
by Ruby Member on Sep. 18, 2017 at 7:51 PM
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I would come fucking unglued on my DH if he pulled that.
Phoenix_lament
by Fawkes on Sep. 18, 2017 at 7:52 PM
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Why does OP need anyone to babysit when her husband is HOME is what should be asked here.

Quoting corticosteroid:

Why is she babysitting?

Quoting Anonymous 1: She's 11 and ds (4) had diarrhea.

Quoting corticosteroid:

I was with you until you said your daughter "shouldn't have to clean up poop".

corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Sep. 18, 2017 at 7:53 PM

The OP is the one who said she was babysitting because her husband was asleep.

Quoting Phoenix_lament: Why does OP need anyone to babysit when her husband is HOME is what should be asked here.
Quoting corticosteroid:

Why is she babysitting?

Quoting Anonymous 1: She's 11 and ds (4) had diarrhea.
Quoting corticosteroid:

I was with you until you said your daughter "shouldn't have to clean up poop".


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