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He was denied parole again

Anonymous
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I met a guy when I was 17. We got engaged at 20 and built a life. We started a business, bought a house, planned a wedding..... it was around the time AOL was getting popular and he discovered the porn chats and I caught him messaging bimbos for sex. I even got one chic’s husband on the phone. We tried to work things out but in the end I dumped him in 2004 and moved 1000 miles away in 2005.

In 2008 I heard he was arrested for soliciting sex from a child under 14. By then he was married. He was given parole but violated it almost instantly and in 2010 was sentenced to 16 years. I randomly check his status online and today I saw his parole was denied again for these reasons -

2D NATURE OF OFFENSE - THE RECORD INDICATES THE INSTANT OFFENSE HAS ELEMENTS OF BRUTALITY, VIOLENCE, ASSAULTIVE BEHAVIOR, OR CONSCIOUS SELECTION OF VICTIM'S VULNERABILITY INDICATING A CONSCIOUS DISREGARD FOR THE LIVES, SAFETY, OR PROPERTY OF OTHERS, SUCH THAT THE OFFENDER POSES A CONTINUING THREAT TO PUBLIC SAFETY.

3D DRUG OR ALCOHOL INVOLVEMENT - THE RECORD INDICATES EXCESSIVE SUBSTANCE USE INVOLVEMENT.

5D ADJUSTMENT DURING PERIODS OF SUPERVISION - THE RECORD INDICATES UNSUCCESSFUL PERIODS OF SUPERVISION ON PREVIOUS PROBATION, PAROLE, OR MANDATORY SUPERVISION THAT RESULTED IN INCARCERATION, INCLUDING PAROLE-IN-ABSENTIA.

9D1 DISCRETIONARY MANDATORY SUPERVISION - THE RECORD INDICATES THAT THE OFFENDER'S ACCRUED GOOD CONDUCT TIME IS NOT AN ACCURATE REFLECTION OF THE OFFENDER'S POTENTIAL FOR REHABILITATION.

9D2 DISCRETIONARY MANDATORY SUPERVISION - THE RECORD INDICATES THAT THE OFFENDER'S RELEASE WOULD ENDANGER THE PUBLIC.

The thing is he was NEVER violent with me. Ever. Yes, he was a perv. I feel kinda bad but I know what he did was wrong. I sure know how to pick them. Sigh.

Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 24, 2017 at 5:29 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 24, 2017 at 5:34 PM
He sounds like he's where he should be.

Why are the women "bimbos?" You sound like the typical woman who blames everyone but her man.
momto2boys973
by Sapphire Member on Sep. 24, 2017 at 5:35 PM

Sounds like he doesn't deserve parole.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 24, 2017 at 5:35 PM

omg move on

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Sep. 24, 2017 at 5:36 PM
I hope he never gets out
LoveAll3306
by Party Specialist on Sep. 24, 2017 at 5:37 PM
Why would you still want to be with someone like that? Count your lucky Stars he never was violent with you and move on.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 24, 2017 at 5:37 PM
Oh, I have. I have a happy marriage and my hubby knows I look it up every year or so. It’s not longing.... it’s pity. just feel so bad since I loved him once.

Quoting Anonymous 3:

omg move on

KoiKamsahamnida
by Gold Member on Sep. 24, 2017 at 5:38 PM

I once was really into a guy and then he was put into jail for soliciting sex from a minor on AOL too... I don't know what else he did. But once he told me what was going on I was all... no wonder your ex didn't want you around her and their daughter! Disgusting dude... ugh.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 24, 2017 at 5:39 PM
I don’t, lol. I just feel bad. I have a great marriage and family. I can still have empathy without love.

Quoting LoveAll3306: Why would you still want to be with someone like that? Count your lucky Stars he never was violent with you and move on.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 24, 2017 at 5:39 PM
I do not have an ex. I do have a daughter and son with my husband.

Quoting KoiKamsahamnida:

I once was really into a guy and then he was put into jail for soliciting sex from a minor on AOL too... I don't know what else he did. But once he told me what was going on I was all... no wonder your ex didn't want you around her and their daughter! Disgusting dude... ugh.

jcm3
by Gold Member on Sep. 24, 2017 at 5:41 PM
Stop stalking his profile
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