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I dont want to be cut open

Anonymous
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I dont want anither csec, its making me s o mad thinking about it! Ive had 3 and i dont want another!!! My dr said the only way id get a chance is to come into the hospital ready to give birth.
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 26, 2017 at 12:59 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 26, 2017 at 1:01 AM
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Your childs life is more important than what you want
ThatDancerGirl
by Emma on Sep. 26, 2017 at 1:02 AM
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Find a different doctor or a midwife. There are many who try to help you have a VBAC. Good luck
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 26, 2017 at 1:03 AM
Edited because this is a featured post and i cannot edit the op.

Thank you everyone. Iam now 31 weeks, healthy pregnancy. Iam not sure what i will do yet. It would make me feel much more comfortable to labor in the hospital but my dr cannot take the risk of losing his licence or possibly having insurance not pay because he supports my trial of labor. He said that the only chance i would have is to go in to the hospital ready to give birth.
Those asking about why i got pregnant again if i didnt want to be cut open... not that i should have to explain to you but this was not a planned pregnancy, i was done having children and dh was going to get a vastectomy but i had a failed birth control.
As for why i have had my previous csecs...the first was a breech baby the 2&3rd were repeat sections- just because. I looked around both pregnancies for a dr who would let me have the trial of labor and none would. I live in California and other posters agree there are not many drs or hospitals that support vbacs.

Quoting Anonymous 2: Your childs life is more important than what you want
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 26, 2017 at 1:04 AM
Thank you.

Quoting ThatDancerGirl: Find a different doctor or a midwife. There are many who try to help you have a VBAC. Good luck
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 26, 2017 at 1:05 AM
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You have to be careful with a midwife though. Not all are very good. Mine told me depending on how my pregnancy goes, I could have a home birth. Then I saw an OB and he told me I was considered high risk and a homebirth would be incredibly unsafe for me. He said the midwives in town are so bad that by the time they usually send the women to an OB the woman is 8 months pregnant and in bad shape.

Quoting ThatDancerGirl: Find a different doctor or a midwife. There are many who try to help you have a VBAC. Good luck
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Sep. 26, 2017 at 1:06 AM
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Find a doctor who will do a vbac
HaloSue
by Gold Member on Sep. 26, 2017 at 1:06 AM
As long as it's been several years you could try natural.
It will depend on the size of the baby and any other issues.


I hope you get what you want but the babies health is far more important.

Good luck!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Sep. 26, 2017 at 1:07 AM

Much better than having your vagina ripped into bloody shreds.


And as a previous poster said, the safety of the baby IS the most important thing!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 26, 2017 at 1:07 AM
It will be 4 years by due date

Quoting HaloSue: As long as it's been several years you could try natural.
It will depend on the size of the baby and any other issues.


I hope you get what you want but the babies health is far more important.

Good luck!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 26, 2017 at 1:08 AM
You would actually risk your childs life, because you dont want to be cut open again?
Good lord heaven help that child

Quoting Anonymous 1: Um no, my body should not have to be cut open just because

Quoting Anonymous 2: Your childs life is more important than what you want
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