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Why do Narcissisit always play the victim?

Anonymous
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I'm with one. He always is the victim. And granted a lot of bad shit happens to him. But he does a lot of people wrong. But somehow he's the victim. Why do Narrasist think they are the victim?? Why don't they see their wrong doings?
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 29, 2017 at 4:07 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 29, 2017 at 4:08 PM
Who???
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 29, 2017 at 4:08 PM

Because they know how to get attention and get people on their side. I see through bs like that but a lot of people can't. Ugh. It's just in their nature. My mom is always the victim too. Always. 

PrettyWings29
by Caribbean Queen on Sep. 29, 2017 at 4:08 PM

It's an imbalance in their brain. 

VertaBaybee
by on Sep. 29, 2017 at 4:08 PM
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The worst kind of people. Sounds like our president.
dawnrothbaum
by Gold Member on Sep. 29, 2017 at 4:09 PM
Is that a religion? I have never heard of it. Is it free to join? Are there meetings? With cupcakes? I like cupcakes.
redbottoms
by Platinum Member on Sep. 29, 2017 at 4:10 PM
well if bad things do happen to him then sometimes he is a victim I guess. In those circumstances. But he needs to realize when he is the villain too.

But if you are with a narc its usually a hopeless toxic relationship fyi.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Sep. 29, 2017 at 4:11 PM
Sounds like my husband.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Sep. 29, 2017 at 4:11 PM
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Narcissist
Momoffour83
by Silver Member on Sep. 29, 2017 at 4:20 PM
If they are the victim, they can`t be to blame.

When the Narcissist (NPD Narcissistic Personality Disorder) are the victim, they can’t be to blame. The narc will always deflect the blame over on others, no matter what they have said, done or what has transpired. If the narc`s can’t be blamed, the narc`s are innocent and even better, when they are innocent, they can easily look like the victim. The narc likes to play the part of a victim because they will get a lot of attention and empathy when they are the victim.
PinkButterfly66
by Sapphire Member on Sep. 29, 2017 at 4:23 PM

Because they're incapable of empathy or compassion and they're selfish self-centered bastards.

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