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Porn question :(

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Ok so long story short my husband and i have a great sex life and a pretty awesome relationship. Well that was until i got pregnant and lost our daughter at 17 wks gestation. We normally only watch porn during sexual relations but i saw on his history that the 9th of october and yesterday, which by the way was my delivery then rushed off to do a d and c, he had searched and skimmed through about 7 porn videos. My thing is im hurt because he came home with our boys and did this while i was in surgery. He says he did nothing wrong but i see it as he hid it from me so he knows it was wrong. I told him i would post here to see how many of you would be hurt or pissed.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 14, 2017 at 7:48 PM
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luckythreemom
by Platinum Member on Oct. 14, 2017 at 7:49 PM
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Seems like an odd way to cope if you ask me.
corticosteroid
by on Oct. 14, 2017 at 7:50 PM
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You can’t be serious with this shit.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 14, 2017 at 7:50 PM
Porn ruins everything.
hip2it
by Gold Member on Oct. 14, 2017 at 7:51 PM
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I have no idea if dh watches porn on his own. I don’t ask. I don’t go through his stuff.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 14, 2017 at 7:52 PM
That is exactly what hes claiming that it was a way to keep his mind busy bcz he was worried. I lost more blood than expected and the dr had me in prep for an hour then about another 1hr and 20 min surgery then 45 minute wake up time in icu.

Quoting luckythreemom: Seems like an odd way to cope if you ask me.
Mommytoobeagain
by Silver Member on Oct. 14, 2017 at 7:52 PM
It was a way for him to release stress. Don't worry about it.
BCauseImAwesome
by Platinum Member on Oct. 14, 2017 at 7:53 PM
I'm really confused. You lost your daughter today and he was watching porn while you were in surgery?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 14, 2017 at 7:53 PM
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I wouldn't be mad but I would also probably never know. I don't check up on my husband.

You searched thru his history so if I were him, I would be REALLY pissed.

I'm sorry for your loss
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 14, 2017 at 7:53 PM
Yes!!!!

Quoting BCauseImAwesome: I'm really confused. You lost your daughter today and he was watching porn while you were in surgery?
Jaxsonsmama2009
by Gold Member on Oct. 14, 2017 at 7:54 PM
I’m not sure I would do or say much about it but I would definetly be hurt by his timing.
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