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Fiance's family causing problems

Posted by on Oct. 15, 2017 at 8:44 AM
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My fiance and I have been together awhile now, I have met his family once. They don't include me in on anything and have done nothing to get to know me. I am very concerned that when we get married nothing will change.My family is even concerned and have asked if I am sure if I want to get involved in a family like that. I have no idea what to do advice? 

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SueWanda
by Platinum Member on Oct. 15, 2017 at 8:45 AM
How don’t they include you?
Darlingone12
by Gold Member on Oct. 15, 2017 at 8:45 AM
Invite them over
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Oct. 15, 2017 at 8:46 AM
How long is awhile? Why do you want to get involved with them? Has your fiance always been treated this way?
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Oct. 15, 2017 at 8:47 AM
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Include you? Like they'll invite your DF, but say you can't come?

As for getting to know you, I wouldn't get my nose out of joint because someone didn't want to know all about me.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 15, 2017 at 8:48 AM
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It goes both ways. Are you and your fiance including them?
Are they openly shunning you? Inviting your fiance to things but not you?
We need more details!
pinklove0015
by Silver Member on Oct. 15, 2017 at 8:50 AM

Not allowed in their home, not allowed to visit, my fiance can only go.

Quoting SueWanda: How don’t they include you?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 15, 2017 at 8:50 AM
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Have you reached out to them?

tsatske2
by Latricia on Oct. 15, 2017 at 8:51 AM
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Only you can decide what to do, but I can tell you that marriage will change nothing. What does your df say?

pinklove0015
by Silver Member on Oct. 15, 2017 at 8:51 AM

I have invited them over. My parents have tried inviting them over so they could meet them, and they refused. 

Quoting Darlingone12: Invite them over


corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Oct. 15, 2017 at 8:51 AM
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He’s your boyfriend.

Just say boyfriend.

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