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Have you cut someone out of your life and then

Anonymous
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let them back in without an apology or without seeing any changes, etc?

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 17, 2017 at 12:47 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 17, 2017 at 12:48 PM

Nope.  If I cut them out of my life it was for a very good reason. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 17, 2017 at 12:49 PM

Yes. I cut out my MIL, but then let her back in when I needed her help.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Oct. 17, 2017 at 12:50 PM
Nope. Not sitting down to talk about what happened, why, and ground rules going forward is just flat out stupid.
OctoberReign
by Silver Member on Oct. 17, 2017 at 12:50 PM
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Yes I have, and I’ve always regretted it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 17, 2017 at 12:51 PM

yeah i get that for sure! i had to cut my parents out of my life and it's been 3 1/2 years ago. i am in a much better place because i cut them out and a lot of hard work on myself and with a therapist. i know they haven't changed.

Quoting Anonymous 2:

Nope.  If I cut them out of my life it was for a very good reason. 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 17, 2017 at 12:51 PM

did you end up just cutting the person/persons out again?

Quoting OctoberReign: Yes I have, and I’ve always regretted it.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Oct. 17, 2017 at 12:52 PM
With men, yes. I was pretty bad about going back to my exes during my early-mid 20s.

All the friends I’ve cut off have stayed cut off. Never cut family off.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Oct. 17, 2017 at 12:53 PM
No, once you’re out, you’re out.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Oct. 17, 2017 at 12:53 PM

No. Once someone annoys me or pisses me off enough, they're pretty much dead to me. It's like a switch goes off in my brain and I don't even want to see their face. Then I forget they even exist until someone brings them up, lol. I have very few people in my life by choice. People are exhausting. 

OctoberReign
by Silver Member on Oct. 17, 2017 at 12:53 PM
Yes

Quoting Anonymous 1:

did you end up just cutting the person/persons out again?

Quoting OctoberReign: Yes I have, and I’ve always regretted it.

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