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It's not "weird" that I get along with Xdhs wife.

Anonymous
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We get along great. Text daily. We attend each other's kids parties. We sit together at school functions. My kid from another marriage says she loves her. Her kid will xdh says he loves me. She babysat my DD today and took her to her son's appt.

She posted about her fun day with Dd and several of her friends said it was weird and no way in hell would they do that.

Why???
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 19, 2017 at 5:15 PM
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bubbs0809
by Emerald Member on Oct. 19, 2017 at 5:34 PM

I'm not interested in her at all.

If you are okay with it then that is good.  But not typical.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 19, 2017 at 5:36 PM
I get along with my husbands ex. We live in 2 different states, but would probably spend time together if we were in the same state. I don’t see it as a big deal.
SRUsarahSC
by Ruby Member on Oct. 19, 2017 at 5:37 PM
My best friend and her husbands ex wife get along fine too. No reason not to.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 19, 2017 at 5:37 PM
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It SHOULD be typical. Why wouldn't you want a healthy relationship with the woman caring for your kids with the x half the time?

Quoting bubbs0809:

I'm not interested in her at all.

If you are okay with it then that is good.  But not typical.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 19, 2017 at 5:38 PM
1 mom liked this

I have friends already 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Oct. 19, 2017 at 5:38 PM
No way I would be. ..but yay for you
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 19, 2017 at 5:39 PM
What does that have to do with it?

Quoting Anonymous 3:

I have friends already 

bubbs0809
by Emerald Member on Oct. 19, 2017 at 5:40 PM

We don't have 50/50 custody.  And my ex's wife was his mistress for months before we split up.  I have no respect or use for her.  My ex sees our children maybe 4 days a month.

Quoting Anonymous 1: It SHOULD be typical. Why wouldn't you want a healthy relationship with the woman caring for your kids with the x half the time?
Quoting bubbs0809:

I'm not interested in her at all.

If you are okay with it then that is good.  But not typical.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 19, 2017 at 5:41 PM

I dont want to be friends with her. 

I have nothing against her and we have never had problems but I have my own friends. 

Quoting Anonymous 1: What does that have to do with it?
Quoting Anonymous 3:

I have friends already 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 19, 2017 at 5:41 PM
Why would you not get along with the woman helping care for your kids?

Quoting Anonymous 4: No way I would be. ..but yay for you
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