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My ex is having a baby with my sister

Anonymous
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My mom keeps telling me I need to let things go.

My little sister helped break up my 10 year marriage to my now ex husband. She initiated the affair by texting him how hot he is and naked pictures of herself.

He was weak and they started having an affair.

I came home sick from work one day and they were having sex in our bed. That's how I found out.

Long story short we are divorced and they got married (she asked me to be her maid of honor) and are expecting a baby.

It's hard for me to just let it go. I'm not angry like I used to be but I don't want to be around them. My ex is very physically affectionate with her and he was never that way with me.

We are all civil now but it's just weird.

How should I deal with the holidays? I don't want to be alone those days but am not sure I want to see all the PDA.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 23, 2017 at 3:43 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 23, 2017 at 3:45 PM
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I'd NEVER talk to any of them again.
MeaganP
by Platinum Member on Oct. 23, 2017 at 3:45 PM
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I would rather be alone on those days. No way I would ever for give or talk to her again

randi1978
by Murdoc's Mistress on Oct. 23, 2017 at 3:46 PM
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Your mom is an asshole for thinking you need to get over it.

Your spouse AND family betrayed you. Ignore those fucking losers. You're not obligated to deal with them.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 23, 2017 at 3:46 PM
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I don't  think I would be able to maintain a relationship with family that was okay with your bitch of a sister.  I would go on vacation or spend it with friends.  

Hugs and good luck

hotspice58
by Platinum Member on Oct. 23, 2017 at 3:47 PM
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This.  Mom would be in the list if she thinks you ought to "let it go"..

Quoting Anonymous 2: I'd NEVER talk to any of them again.


honeyrder
by on Oct. 23, 2017 at 3:47 PM
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You have kids with this douchebag?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Oct. 23, 2017 at 3:51 PM
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This. So your kids with have half sibling cousins. Wow

Quoting honeyrder:

You have kids with this douchebag?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 23, 2017 at 3:51 PM
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I was thinking I'd start a new tradition and take a cruise or something if I don't have the kids. Or I could bring them.

Quoting Anonymous 3:

I don't  think I would be able to maintain a relationship with family that was okay with your bitch of a sister.  I would go on vacation or spend it with friends.  

Hugs and good luck

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 23, 2017 at 3:52 PM
Yes I do. 3

Quoting honeyrder:

You have kids with this douchebag?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 23, 2017 at 3:52 PM

That would be fun.  I bet they would love it!  

Quoting Anonymous 1: I was thinking I'd start a new tradition and take a cruise or something if I don't have the kids. Or I could bring them.
Quoting Anonymous 3:

I don't  think I would be able to maintain a relationship with family that was okay with your bitch of a sister.  I would go on vacation or spend it with friends.  

Hugs and good luck


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