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S/O. Would you be sexually attracted to your dh if

Anonymous
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He became morbidly obese when he was previously a healthy weight?

I honestly think I would not. It would be a huge struggle for me.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 20, 2017 at 8:37 PM
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Not_A_Native
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2017 at 8:39 PM

I would not.  My husband is in great shape, watches his weight, works out, runs marathons and does Ironman triathlons.  I would not be attracted to him if he were to gain weight.  And I know he wouldn't be attracted to me if I did either.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 20, 2017 at 8:39 PM
My DH has been various weights over our marriage (although not morbidly obese), and I’ve always found him attractive. It’s certainly not something I would leave over.
Pink.Sunshine
by Petty Princess on Nov. 20, 2017 at 8:40 PM
No
Zengirl79
by Platinum Member on Nov. 20, 2017 at 8:40 PM
No
Pisces_Mom89
by Silver Member on Nov. 20, 2017 at 8:40 PM
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Well we are both pudgy now. But if he ever became like grotesquely obese where i have to like help him bathe then id probably have issues. But i wouldn't enable him so it would never get that bad.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 20, 2017 at 8:40 PM

I would leave my husband if he became morbidly obese. I wont be with someone that unhealthy

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 20, 2017 at 8:41 PM
I'm not saying I would leave... But dang. I'm pretty sexual. I would have an awfully hard time with this. And if he didn't do anything about it I probably would leave.

Quoting Anonymous 2: My DH has been various weights over our marriage (although not morbidly obese), and I�ve always found him attractive. It�s certainly not something I would leave over.
Libby22
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2017 at 8:41 PM
No. He’s lost 15 lbs recently and is looking good!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 20, 2017 at 8:41 PM
I guess I’m not incredibly sexual. I would stay, no question.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I'm not saying I would leave... But dang. I'm pretty sexual. I would have an awfully hard time with this. And if he didn't do anything about it I probably would leave.

Quoting Anonymous 2: My DH has been various weights over our marriage (although not morbidly obese), and I�ve always found him attractive. It�s certainly not something I would leave over.
merrysgirls
by Lame on Nov. 20, 2017 at 8:42 PM
I would still love him, but sexually attracted? I don’t think so.
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