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Unhappy in Marriage

Anonymous
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When it's not great, you know it won't get better, but it's not bad enough to leave. Anyone else in this space? 

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 20, 2017 at 10:07 PM
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shell3m
by Shell on Nov. 20, 2017 at 10:08 PM
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No.
That sounds horrible.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 20, 2017 at 10:09 PM

It's not great, not horrible. If it were horrible I think I could leave. I used to hope it would get horrible so I'd have a reason. 

Quoting shell3m: No. That sounds horrible.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 20, 2017 at 10:10 PM
How long have you guys been together If you don’t mind me asking?

Quoting Anonymous 1:

When it's not great, you know it won't get better, but it's not bad enough to leave. Anyone else in this space? 

shell3m
by Shell on Nov. 20, 2017 at 10:10 PM
Ok

Quoting Anonymous 1:

It's not great, not horrible. If it were horrible I think I could leave. I used to hope it would get horrible so I'd have a reason. 

Quoting shell3m: No.
That sounds horrible.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 20, 2017 at 10:10 PM

16 years

Quoting Anonymous 2: How long have you guys been together If you don’t mind me asking?
Quoting Anonymous 1:

When it's not great, you know it won't get better, but it's not bad enough to leave. Anyone else in this space? 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 20, 2017 at 10:11 PM

Ive been there. It took work but its a lot better now. took a whole lot of honesty and willingness to put pride aside and both parts and make it work.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 20, 2017 at 10:11 PM
I wouldn't live like that. I'd either find a way to make it better or walk out the door. Life is too short.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 20, 2017 at 10:12 PM
Wow that’s a long time. What happened? Are you guys just growing apart or what’s up?

Quoting Anonymous 1:

16 years

Quoting Anonymous 2: How long have you guys been together If you don’t mind me asking?

Quoting Anonymous 1:

When it's not great, you know it won't get better, but it's not bad enough to leave. Anyone else in this space? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 20, 2017 at 10:13 PM
Yes!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Nov. 20, 2017 at 10:14 PM
Bumping
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