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Should he LEAVE me for this?

Anonymous
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My husband and I have been together for 6 years now.

He is 35 and I am 25. 

He is getting older and has been asking to have a baby. He so badly wants a baby girl. 

I have a 6 year old son already from a prior relationship. I always said he was going to be my first and last child.

I don't want another kid--like, at all. Especially with him being almost 7, just the thought of starting over makes me cringe. I was really depressed a few years after having him and sometimes I just don't enjoy motherhood. (Of course I never show that to my son, hes amazing!)

Bottom line is.... I feel so sorry for my husband! He doesn't have any kids and his feelings are extremely hurt that I won't have his child. He even told me tonight to give him a baby and I can take off and he will raise him/her on his own. 

Honestly , I wouldn't blame him at all if he leaves me and that hurts me to the core. My friends even made little remarks like, "be careful. He might cheat on you and get someone else pregnant"

Theres probably not much you ladies can say... but any insight will be great. Im feeling down right now :(

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 10, 2017 at 10:43 PM
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Valentina327
by Silver Member on Dec. 10, 2017 at 10:44 PM
2 moms liked this
Didn't you discuss this before hand?
bluebunnybabe
by kid crack dealer on Dec. 10, 2017 at 10:45 PM
At what point did he change his mind about being without kids?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 10, 2017 at 10:45 PM
Did you not discuss this before getting married??

luckythreemom
by Platinum Member on Dec. 10, 2017 at 10:45 PM
Did you know he wanted this prior to marriage?
Thewife06
by Platinum Member on Dec. 10, 2017 at 10:45 PM
He might. He might not. Everyone is different.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 10, 2017 at 10:45 PM
These are conversations that should have been had before marriage.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 10, 2017 at 10:45 PM
Shouldn't you guys have talked about this before getting married?
stepperbepper
by Gold Member on Dec. 10, 2017 at 10:46 PM
That's rough...I don't have any insight but I hope you can work it out
iampavlov
by RingTheBell on Dec. 10, 2017 at 10:46 PM

yeah, he needs to find a woman who wants the same things as he does.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Dec. 10, 2017 at 10:47 PM
This should have been talked about before you got married. Honestly, I would think long and hard about it and determine if I couldn't change my mind for his sake
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