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For those of you in an unhappy marriage...

Anonymous
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Why don’t you get a divorce? Do you think you ever will?
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 11, 2017 at 12:05 AM
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by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 11, 2017 at 12:06 AM
I always wonder this too. Why be unhappy? It’s not doing anyone any good, especially the children involved.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 11, 2017 at 12:09 AM
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Divorce is not always an option.
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2017 at 12:10 AM
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Divorce is always an option. People need to stop putting such a negative stigma on divorce.

Quoting Anonymous 3: Divorce is not always an option.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 11, 2017 at 12:15 AM
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I made a choice and it's important for me to fulfill my responsibilities. There are a lot of things in life that make me unhappy, but I can't just walk away from every single thing that isn't a party lol. That's just life. Some people take obligations seriously, and some are okay walking away from them. Will I ever divorce? Possibly. The dynamics of our relationship will naturally change when our children are out of the house, and we will have to see what makes sense when we are no longer parents, but just a married couple. The responsibilities and obligations will change. 

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by Anonymous 5 on Dec. 11, 2017 at 12:19 AM
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If you are unhappy, that is your issue not your husband's. Can't blame another person for your unhappiness. You could stay married and get happy if you want. Aside from abuse or infidelity...I see no reason to divorce.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Dec. 11, 2017 at 12:22 AM
I did get a divorce.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Dec. 11, 2017 at 12:23 AM
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I’m a sahm. I have nothing. I have no family. I have a preschooler I can’t afford to put in daycare to work.
He’s a better option than welfare.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2017 at 12:33 AM
This post has nothing to do with me. Don’t assume that every question posed is a question about the OP.

Quoting Anonymous 5: If you are unhappy, that is your issue not your husband's. Can't blame another person for your unhappiness. You could stay married and get happy if you want. Aside from abuse or infidelity...I see no reason to divorce.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2017 at 12:34 AM
Bump
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by Anonymous 8 on Dec. 11, 2017 at 12:38 AM
We are divorcing after Christmas. Plan to move out before Christmas
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