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I'm not being rude or a b****

Anonymous
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But my Mil is driving me crazy. My husband insists on me meeting my Mil once a week for lunch.The issue is we have nothing to talk about it. Its the same thing every time. She asks how's work and I reply its fine. She asks where did I go and what did I do. I reply every time that I'm not allowed to discuss it. She will then tell me to tell her about my co-workers. I tell her I tell her I don't know my coworkers and that I don't even know their names

Then she moves on to the plots of all her favorite shows and ask what I think. I reply every time that I don't know I've never watched the shows. She will then ask what about the shows that I watch and once again I have to tell that I don't watch TV. I try to talk about the kids and there is nothing to say because my husband gives her nightly updates on the kids. Today I for sick of it and told her that I wouldn't be having lunch with her anymore. That its obvious that we have nothing in common and its a waste of her time as well as hers. As long as we are respectful to each other we don't have to be friends. I paid for both lunches. I didn't evn make it to my car before husband called reaming me out about how rude and bitchy I was. I told him to get a grip and that I was free to spend time with who ever I wanted. I also told him I didn't want to hear another word about it until he had six months of weekly lunches with my mom. This is fucvkimg ridiculous
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 15, 2017 at 5:05 PM
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OrangeBalloon
by Emerald Member on Dec. 15, 2017 at 5:08 PM
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So many questions. And none of them are about your MIL. How do you NOT know the names of your co-workers? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 15, 2017 at 5:09 PM
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sounds like your hubby needs to cut the umbilical cord

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 15, 2017 at 5:10 PM
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How come your “not allowed” to discuss where you go or what you do?  Are you a secret agent?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 15, 2017 at 5:10 PM
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Why does he make you have weekly lunches with her?
jws120567
by Platinum Member on Dec. 15, 2017 at 5:10 PM
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Is he out of his damned mind???  It sounds like you have nothing in common with his mother, he shouldn't be pressuring you like that.  He sounds like a Mama's Boy, sorry.  And how dare he ream you out over a conversation he wasn't there for!  I wouldn't put up with that shit either!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Dec. 15, 2017 at 5:11 PM
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Good. Is he going to have those lunches)
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Dec. 15, 2017 at 5:11 PM
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It sounds like you're just boring af.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Dec. 15, 2017 at 5:11 PM
You’re not “allowed” to discuss it? By whom?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Dec. 15, 2017 at 5:11 PM
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Oh so this is just a way to get us to ask about your job.
sheramom4
by Emerald Member on Dec. 15, 2017 at 5:12 PM
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Quoting OrangeBalloon:

So many questions. And none of them are about your MIL. How do you NOT know the names of your co-workers? 

Obviously she is the American female 007 lol. 

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