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Christmas in secret.....

Anonymous
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DH says HE is converting to Islam and we will no longer be celebrating Christmas.

I'm praying we can co exist in peace.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 17, 2017 at 11:34 AM
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TiffanyRose06
by Hufflepuff on Dec. 17, 2017 at 11:36 AM
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I wouldn't do it in secret
corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Dec. 17, 2017 at 11:37 AM

I got nothin’.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 17, 2017 at 11:38 AM

Good luck to you. If he is unwilling to respect your traditions and beliefs then it isnt worth the spiritual struggle it will create in your relationship.

Why did he decide to randomly convert?

jcm3
by Gold Member on Dec. 17, 2017 at 11:38 AM
I would tell him to kick rocks
CotterpinDoozer
by Platinum Member on Dec. 17, 2017 at 11:40 AM
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Nope sorry, you don't get to tell me if I'll be celebrating a holiday or not. If he had a problem with it, he'd be free to leave until he got over it.

cupcake7734
by on Dec. 17, 2017 at 11:40 AM
Why is it secret? Is he ashamed for converting? Religion something you should be proud of, not be something you would want to hide. As for celebrating Christmas, that's his choice. He doesn't get to make that decision for both of you.
almburr
by Ruby Member on Dec. 17, 2017 at 11:40 AM
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If HE is the only one converting then HE is the only one not celebrating Christmas. Since you and the children are not converting, you still celebrate your beliefs.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 17, 2017 at 11:46 AM
Well, for the life of me, I can't figure out how you'd celebrate Christmas without him knowing it.
EmilyH87
by Platinum Member on Dec. 17, 2017 at 11:46 AM
HE is free to not celebrate. We'd be celebrating around him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 17, 2017 at 11:46 AM
We are black. HE says Jesus is a white thing

I told him Muslims enslaved us FIRST.

Quoting Anonymous 2:

Good luck to you. If he is unwilling to respect your traditions and beliefs then it isnt worth the spiritual struggle it will create in your relationship.

Why did he decide to randomly convert?

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